"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
FR: Did an approach at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.ChrizZ said:DON'T FEED THE TROLL!!!
I request ban for Elstud aka Viper aka Mr. Confidence and for everyone that keeps replying to his threads!
Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.War Against Betaism said:I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You don't need proof to give good advice. Advice is only there for insurance, but there's no need for insurance because you've only been given good advice that you've been ignoring.ElStud said:Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
Then again you're a troll.
ElStud said:Sigh... it's getting to the point if that if the Keyboard Jockies of the board are just going to bombard my post with bad advice, I'm not even going to bother replying until someone who knows what they're talking about says something. And if you can compare this one, with the last thread, it's the SAME people who are giving bad advice and then arguing.
hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
He's been known to be like this. My theory is that he's either a troll who thrives off of attention, or he was so socially isolated and inept growing up that he doesn't understand the full mechanics of how an interaction works, and is unable to appropriately respond to them because of a lack of experience. And due to his big ego, he's unwilling to take advice. I'm actually going for the first point. Honestly, no one can be this self centered, ignorant, stupid all at the same time. There are people like that, but I doubt I would have met one in the community.Real said:hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important.ElStud said:I'm the troll, yet you have no FR's and somehow you're always here to reply immediately after the post. Good luck with that. Now, let me save you the time. Let me guess, predictibly, all the KBJ's, ChrisZ, Bbivid, Miba, HandyAndy, GWA(Well known KBJ), Real and others are all going to start saying "OMG! Viper is troll ban please". Meanwhile the rest of the board doesn't give a fvck, do you wonder why? They don't want nothing to do with this immature KBJ, "Let's accuse someone who's improving to be a troll" crap. Seriously though, I don't see anyone with any success EVER giving advice in these topics. And it's funny how most of the "No FR's, but we're going to act like we know the game" guys are the ones accusing me of being a troll.
You're trying to pick up girls at lunch time? Well I have better things to do at lunch... like how about eat?
Troll or not: you'd be more respected if you simply posted "DLV" or "I am AFC" instead of pinning your problems on other people who aren't doing the wrong things.
I am AFC!! I'm not some PUA God... Jesus, why don't you study why people here are saying what they say to you and figure out for yourself what's wrong with you.
Read this over and over Viper, this is why YOU are infact the KBJ.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you can go get a room with elstud then.superchill89 said:alamar you're a loser yourself don't jump in.
btw we need an echoproof forum, or maybe you love me since you talk about me so much...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.