"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
FR: Did an approach at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.ChrizZ said:DON'T FEED THE TROLL!!!
I request ban for Elstud aka Viper aka Mr. Confidence and for everyone that keeps replying to his threads!
Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.War Against Betaism said:I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You don't need proof to give good advice. Advice is only there for insurance, but there's no need for insurance because you've only been given good advice that you've been ignoring.ElStud said:Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
Then again you're a troll.
ElStud said:Sigh... it's getting to the point if that if the Keyboard Jockies of the board are just going to bombard my post with bad advice, I'm not even going to bother replying until someone who knows what they're talking about says something. And if you can compare this one, with the last thread, it's the SAME people who are giving bad advice and then arguing.
hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
He's been known to be like this. My theory is that he's either a troll who thrives off of attention, or he was so socially isolated and inept growing up that he doesn't understand the full mechanics of how an interaction works, and is unable to appropriately respond to them because of a lack of experience. And due to his big ego, he's unwilling to take advice. I'm actually going for the first point. Honestly, no one can be this self centered, ignorant, stupid all at the same time. There are people like that, but I doubt I would have met one in the community.Real said:hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important.ElStud said:I'm the troll, yet you have no FR's and somehow you're always here to reply immediately after the post. Good luck with that. Now, let me save you the time. Let me guess, predictibly, all the KBJ's, ChrisZ, Bbivid, Miba, HandyAndy, GWA(Well known KBJ), Real and others are all going to start saying "OMG! Viper is troll ban please". Meanwhile the rest of the board doesn't give a fvck, do you wonder why? They don't want nothing to do with this immature KBJ, "Let's accuse someone who's improving to be a troll" crap. Seriously though, I don't see anyone with any success EVER giving advice in these topics. And it's funny how most of the "No FR's, but we're going to act like we know the game" guys are the ones accusing me of being a troll.
You're trying to pick up girls at lunch time? Well I have better things to do at lunch... like how about eat?
Troll or not: you'd be more respected if you simply posted "DLV" or "I am AFC" instead of pinning your problems on other people who aren't doing the wrong things.
I am AFC!! I'm not some PUA God... Jesus, why don't you study why people here are saying what they say to you and figure out for yourself what's wrong with you.
Read this over and over Viper, this is why YOU are infact the KBJ.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you can go get a room with elstud then.superchill89 said:alamar you're a loser yourself don't jump in.
btw we need an echoproof forum, or maybe you love me since you talk about me so much...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.