FR: Bus stop HB8 Promiscuous Party Girl!!! PLEASE READ!!

[Latinoman]

By the way...I don't think she wants to talk to him via telephone. I won't be surprised if she will ignore him if he calls her now. I think she is at work or something like that.

 

[iqqi]

I get the feeling she thinks you are slow and boring too.

Most of her pyscho texts are just cuz she doesn't give a f@ck.

There is a guy who keeps texting me stupid sh!t too. In return I send him off the wall texts back SOMETIMES, or "what"s, or I don't answer at all. Because I don't really care, and he is lame as hell.

That is just the impression I get.

Latinoman offers the best replies to the texts, but I doubt that will help you, as your normal response is to take it too seriously. Like "whatever the fXck ever then"???

Why would you get upset and in arms about that?

And why is this thread in the MM forum? You have to be 25+ to post here.

 

[Latinoman]

If he is playing the text game...with a young woman...he CANNOT take anything serious.

If she is sending psycho texts, because she doesn't give a f@ck. Then he should go for broke too and act like he does not give a damn.

Who knows...maybe he can raise a little bit of her interest...or put her in a situation in which she has to classify herself. I doubt that, because he already made some serious mistakes with the texting early on.

 

[Warrior74]

By the way...I don't think she wants to talk to him via telephone. I won't be surprised if she will ignore him if he calls her now. I think she is at work or something like that.

yah well then he shouldn't be texting her. he should be about his business being a man and should call her when he's free and she's free. He seem like some needy guy who just met his first hot chic. All up in her face with a million texts. I usually don't agree with iqqi but this time I actually do. It sounds like she's just toying with him from start...bar girls are notorieously evil. If they smell a rat in any sense...yer dead in the water. They get hit on every night and hear every line in the book. The only bartender I pulled I pulled from a sense of quiet self assurance. Guys offering money, showing their wangs, bragging about their riches, trying to buy them stuff, even guys being wangy and funny (hehe), they seen it all. I pulled mine by coming off as a real man who didn't try to impress her but got to know her as a real person and refusing to pedestal her because she was hot. Your mileage may vary.

I think the OP should continue to post in this thread, see it all the way through so we can see what he learned from this.

 

[iqqi]

If he is playing the text game...with a young woman...he CANNOT take anything serious.

If she is sending psycho texts, because she doesn't give a f@ck. Then he should go for broke too and act like he does not give a damn.

Who knows...maybe he can raise a little bit of her interest...or put her in a situation in which she has to classify herself. I doubt that, because he already made some serious mistakes with the texting early on.

I agree.

But I doubt he can pull it off.

 

[Latinoman]

yah well then he shouldn't be texting her. he should be about his business being a man and should call her when he's free and she's free. He seem like some needy guy who just met his first hot chic. All up in her face with a million texts. I usually don't agree with iqqi but this time I actually do. It sounds like she's just toying with him from start...bar girls are notorieously evil. If they smell a rat in any sense...yer dead in the water. They get hit on every night and hear every line in the book. The only bartender I pulled I pulled from a sense of quiet self assurance. Guys offering money, showing their wangs, bragging about their riches, trying to buy them stuff, even guys being wangy and funny (hehe), they seen it all. I pulled mine by coming off as a real man who didn't try to impress her but got to know her as a real person and refusing to pedestal her because she was hot. Your mileage may vary.

I think the OP should continue to post in this thread, see it all the way through so we can see what he learned from this.

If you read the title of the thread...he refers to her as PARTY GIRL and PROMISCUOUS.

And I am covertly trying to get her to go party to his place (after work)...and if she is "promiscuous" he should be alright.

But here is the thing...I doubt she has an interest on him. She is playing little games because she feels she can. He had a chance to stop her in her tracks...but he fell for her game because he put her in a pedestal.

That's fine...he is learning.

 

[DJ Noble]

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And why is this thread in the MM forum? You have to be 25+ to post here.

I was wondering the same thing.

No offense Ken, but you were dead in the water from the start. Stop the long, drawn-out pointless texting. Its one of the most AFC things you can do. Women know this (..but I wouldn't exactly classify this female as a woman).

Her interest level is low, but she will keep this game going because she loves the attention.

Either get to the point and try to close the F... or stop contact. Shes a HB8, but there are plenty of other HB8s and HB9s at your school who have a better heads on their shoulders. This girl isnt worth your time.

 

[Ken785]

I agree.

But I doubt he can pull it off.

Thanks for the support. and i am 25 iqqi.

 

[Luveno]

Girl seems like she's your typical harlot.

You say she's an HB8, but I bet there's nothing extraordinary about her: if you were to line her up with all the other LA bimbos, you wouldn't be able to pick her out. Heck, I bet she'd have the same tramp stamp as everyone else too.

You're texting her too much. Far too much. And you've complimented her...these women are like thieves: give them an inch and they'll take a mile. For her, the only language she understands is neg hits and apathy.

Right now you're coming across(sorry...you've COME across) as a guy whose only option is her. Huge ego boost for this girl, right there. It makes you look like a loser.

POOP? Who say's poop? I'll tell you who: immature people(children, and bimbo women). If she really wanted to screw you, she wouldn't want you to associate feces with her.

Drop this. She's done.

 

[MacAvoy]

After reading your txt & getting bored, this is why I am firmly against txting unless it serves a purpose. Granted you were trying to take it away from txt and go to coffee but you should have never even let it get that far.

Women use txting as a tool when they are bored. You are the prize you should be busy but because you value her potential, you will make the time for a phone call where both of you are 100% focussed on each other.

 

[DonGorgon]

Women hate it when you tell them too call you... they want it to happen naturally because she felt like she wanted to.. not through your instruction.. Tell her to call lowers the chance that she will call.

 

[Apollo]

Ken, how old are you?

Did you honestly say "later gator"?

Taking a quick glance at your text's I'm sorry to say but it's game over...you blew your chance with this one. Learn from your mistakes (texting way too much) and apply the lessons learned to the next one.

 

[Ken785]

Ken, how old are you?

Did you honestly say "later gator"?

Taking a quick glance at your text's I'm sorry to say but it's game over...you blew your chance with this one. Learn from your mistakes (texting way too much) and apply the lessons learned to the next one.

Thanks bro...she didn't text me back or call me after our last texts...from now on, ill try not to play the texting game...the way i looked at it...i didn't really care. I wanted her, but seemed she was a total tease and i said things that made her lose interest.

I couldn't care less otherwise because i have other options, but i will earn from this one. I would like to thank everyone here for the feedback and taking their time to read my FR...thanks for the support, thanks for the hate...thanks for the feedback!