You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Like I said, that sh*t sucked bro, it's the reason why I'm afraid to approach because of bad approaches like this.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A better social sense? Nah. You approach with all that conversational sh*t and it's really not going to help get the girl interested. Most girls would just give you the same one word bull. Don't start me with that open ended stuff, conversation will not work unless she's already interested. How do I know? I've had this happen a lot to me in the field and even if you ask open ended questions, it won't really help getting her interested.GaryUranga said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Uhhh...judging by your post, youre not the most socially intelligent person. Look at what you wrote and how it would sound if someone said the samething. Yes, you are DHVing, but the context in which youre doing so is in an arrogant manner. If you said you do track, thats one thing, but when you say youre a trackstar...you come off ****y. Clearly your DHV isnt working...so at least consider what im saying.ElStud said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
just an example but I think you get what I mean.Exactly. Its all about vibing. You match there vibe, and then you lead and have them pace you.GaryUranga said:like oakrider and I said, its about social intelligence in this case, DHV worked in that case because the delivery, the situation and everything allowed it to probably, its always about the way you say it, right, thats a "law" here but remeber theese laws are flexible, theese are social interactions, theres also a context in which things are done, you cant just go like yelling some ****y and funny comment at a class of meditating girls in yoga and expect it to work, not saying thats at all the case here