When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Did you not come in about 2 seconds tho?I hadn't masterbated or had sex in like 2 weeks,
Originally posted by MasterYoda
This HB9 must of been one of the nice ones whose down to earth. Last week I saw two hb10s and they were so up their asses when I said "hi" ignored me. The sad thing is there was nothing I could have done. Using a neg would have been suicide. So instead I said she had a nice face instead and she still walked past.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WHAT?Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
APPROACH #15:
Still in the same spot, but a few seconds later.
I spot a real cutie w/ glasses.... Smart girl hottness.
ME: Hey come here and receive this game.
Clooney:Originally posted by CLOONEY
Can I just ask a question out of interest, and this is not posed negatively at all.
For you guys doing all this sarging, how many actual beautiful woman (woman that you would consider girlfriend material), have you been dating? And further, if you have dated them for extended periods, have you kept their high interest level?
If so, why dont you have a girlfriend currently? As I have seem some of these names of the guys who are out sarging, going around for months now, without any mention of a meaningful relationship.
Just some thoughts, as it has been a long time since I was in your boat, and wonder how, with all this dating, you have not found a girl you really like yet and made her your girlfriend.
These thoughts just came as I see all these sarging threads lately, and remembered back to my days, with my mates, when we used to do this a lot. Although, after a long period of doing it, each and every one met a girl they really liked/loved, and ended the sarging (at least for a long period). The cycle then continues.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah, fair enough. Good to see some of these guys sarging at least know they want to find a great girl to settle down with for a while. All deep down want it, they just dont relise it at first, or blatantly deny it! But you are on the right track, all the guys out "sarging" will be the ones who end up with the great girls. And all the guys sitting doing no approaches, will be the ones who end up watching and always being single, or settling for less. I have seen it so many times!Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
#29/30
Clooney, I agree with PIMP's answer to your question, but secretly I do want a relationship.
Monday 24, 2005
2 approaches.....
I used my ballbreaker on a 2 set of cute asian girls. No numbers, only conversation...
Someone give me idea of everyday places to sarge.
I am not asian, but I am a fan of asian women.Originally posted by silenthill
What the hell is up with all these asians? Are you asian or something?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Originally posted by lebRambo
haha! walk down the front of your class and say "all you ladies here look desperate for a real man. come down and put your number on this list."![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.