"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Four women harassing me at work. Ready to quit my job.

Shrubber101

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I work in a hospital. Constant kino and flirting from alot of the women there; all of them attached. Doesn't bother me in the slightest and makes the work day go a bit easier.

This all usually comes down to the halo effect. One woman finds you attractive therefore all the others do becouse you're perceived value goes up. Out in the real world I doubt they'd look at me twice lol.

I banged a married woman I worked with for a while. She was hearing all the women talking about me so of course she had to get the prize. Said she had been happily married for seven years and had never had the urge to be unfaithful untill she was around me. Complete bollocks. It's just women's narcissism in action. They're competing for the prize i.e, you.

Man up and enjoy it. Take advantage of the situation. They'll probably do all sorts of favours for you and have them eating out the palm of your hand if you play your cards right. Youre in a hen house, so be the rooster.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CMNILS87

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You can only really go to HR if you have unprofessional conduct. Anything else like them bring “mean” to you or singling them out doesn’t have any weight unless you have evidence and and another can back you up.

The flirty touching is close to harassment. You could bring up that she keeps touching you on the arm flirty like, even after you told her to stop.
 

marmel75

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I work in a hospital. Constant kino and flirting from alot of the women there; all of them attached. Doesn't bother me in the slightest and makes the work day go a bit easier.

This all usually comes down to the halo effect. One woman finds you attractive therefore all the others do becouse you're perceived value goes up. Out in the real world I doubt they'd look at me twice lol.

I banged a married woman I worked with for a while. She was hearing all the women talking about me so of course she had to get the prize. Said she had been happily married for seven years and had never had the urge to be unfaithful untill she was around me. Complete bollocks. It's just women's narcissism in action. They're competing for the prize i.e, you.

Man up and enjoy it. Take advantage of the situation. They'll probably do all sorts of favours for you and have them eating out the palm of your hand if you play your cards right. Youre in a hen house, so be the rooster.
Hospitals and restaurants are basically like places where everyone is banging everyone...nurses are some of the biggest freaks out there...
 

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I work in a hospital. Constant kino and flirting from alot of the women there; all of them attached. Doesn't bother me in the slightest and makes the work day go a bit easier.

This all usually comes down to the halo effect. One woman finds you attractive therefore all the others do becouse you're perceived value goes up. Out in the real world I doubt they'd look at me twice lol.

I banged a married woman I worked with for a while. She was hearing all the women talking about me so of course she had to get the prize. Said she had been happily married for seven years and had never had the urge to be unfaithful untill she was around me. Complete bollocks. It's just women's narcissism in action. They're competing for the prize i.e, you.

Man up and enjoy it. Take advantage of the situation. They'll probably do all sorts of favours for you and have them eating out the palm of your hand if you play your cards right. Youre in a hen house, so be the rooster.
Agreed.

Anywhere where women vastly outnumber men then this sort of shiet happens.

Some men do get on with it but most often then not they get burned with some sort of scandal or drama, with the girl playing the victim card.

U r not the Hunter there, u r the hunted, a mere tool towards female social pecking order.

No women there will be immune, sooner or later they'll end up joining the race.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are working with too many women lolll

Tell them you have a fake gf
In casual conversation, make sure to bring up "your girlfriend" numerous times.
All these women (have husbands and boyfriends) don't give a rat's ass to their own husbands and boyfriends, but give a rat's ass to OP's girlfriend?

Seems logical. Doesn't hurt OP to try, I guess...............and see if it works.
 

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Reminds me the time working in a restaurant. Everyone was having sex with everyone. My first ever threesome was with my supervisor and with her bestie, great times.
I got paid a lot better, but being an aerospace engineer was obviously a bad career move in this respect.
 

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I got paid a lot better, but being an aerospace engineer was obviously a bad career move in this respect.
Get a side job as a bar tender or bouncer. Intelligent types get shoehorned into this non sexual cash earner bs.
 

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Get a side job as a bar tender or bouncer. Intelligent types get shoehorned into this non sexual cash earner bs.
Of course, that cash earning BS has allowed me to retire early and live abroad in a location with much better sexual access.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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