Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by Jedo1
She just called back and said she is comming over, she wants me to tell her that to her face.
What should I do?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by Jedo1
I didn't promise her I wouldnt tell the other guy,
And she called, said she was comming over and hung up. She doesn't have a cell so she must be on her way.
I don't know what should I do when she gets here?
That is still not a valid excuse. I am so sick of women who get drunk and do some sh1t and then make excuses.Originally posted by Keeper
Yeah... but as the topic started mentioned, he's been seeing this girl for a few weeks after she got back from her holiday. :-/
Edit: Oh... and technically I didn't see her banging the dude. If it makes you feel any better... maybe she got stone drunk and she got dares to hold the guys **** while someone takes a picture... you never know. :-D
Still... dump her ass.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by DJDamage
That is still not a valid excuse. I am so sick of women who get drunk and do some sh1t and then make excuses.
Ludacris: "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed".
If she sucks a guys d1ck in front of everybody she is not a lady but a wh0re.
Sex should be a private thing. Even if she wasn't cheating that was still disgusting.
I agree, tell her that you won't tell her friend's b/f if she blows you right now!I still say
"Bust in her mouth
Kick her the -f*ck- out
She'll cuss me out, like...
[Chorus 1]
Phuk.. U..
Phuk.. U.."
Ask her if she ever heard of the 1 fvck a trip rule? You're a wh0re if you fvck more than 1 guy in a trip.Originally posted by Jedo1
I just got off the phone with her
She admitted to having sex with 3 differant guys on the trip.
She said she was having fun, and that we werent going out, so it wasn't cheating on me. (Which is technically true)
I asked her what about your friend, she has a boyfriend, wasn't she cheating on him?
She seriously said this to me. "Didn't you ever hear of the 1000 mile radius rule? I doesn't count if you are over 1000 miles away"
I was like what the fvk?
She then goes on to say "It was just sex, it's not like we liked those guys or anything"
I told her I don't want to see her anymore because she is too promiscuous, and that she could have gotten a disease.
She told me fine be that way then tried to make me promise I wouldn't say anything t the other girl's boyfriend.
I told her to get bent and hung up the phone
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.