Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by Jedo1
She just called back and said she is comming over, she wants me to tell her that to her face.
What should I do?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Originally posted by Jedo1
I didn't promise her I wouldnt tell the other guy,
And she called, said she was comming over and hung up. She doesn't have a cell so she must be on her way.
I don't know what should I do when she gets here?
That is still not a valid excuse. I am so sick of women who get drunk and do some sh1t and then make excuses.Originally posted by Keeper
Yeah... but as the topic started mentioned, he's been seeing this girl for a few weeks after she got back from her holiday. :-/
Edit: Oh... and technically I didn't see her banging the dude. If it makes you feel any better... maybe she got stone drunk and she got dares to hold the guys **** while someone takes a picture... you never know. :-D
Still... dump her ass.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Originally posted by DJDamage
That is still not a valid excuse. I am so sick of women who get drunk and do some sh1t and then make excuses.
Ludacris: "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed".
If she sucks a guys d1ck in front of everybody she is not a lady but a wh0re.
Sex should be a private thing. Even if she wasn't cheating that was still disgusting.
I agree, tell her that you won't tell her friend's b/f if she blows you right now!I still say
"Bust in her mouth
Kick her the -f*ck- out
She'll cuss me out, like...
[Chorus 1]
Phuk.. U..
Phuk.. U.."
Ask her if she ever heard of the 1 fvck a trip rule? You're a wh0re if you fvck more than 1 guy in a trip.Originally posted by Jedo1
I just got off the phone with her
She admitted to having sex with 3 differant guys on the trip.
She said she was having fun, and that we werent going out, so it wasn't cheating on me. (Which is technically true)
I asked her what about your friend, she has a boyfriend, wasn't she cheating on him?
She seriously said this to me. "Didn't you ever hear of the 1000 mile radius rule? I doesn't count if you are over 1000 miles away"
I was like what the fvk?
She then goes on to say "It was just sex, it's not like we liked those guys or anything"
I told her I don't want to see her anymore because she is too promiscuous, and that she could have gotten a disease.
She told me fine be that way then tried to make me promise I wouldn't say anything t the other girl's boyfriend.
I told her to get bent and hung up the phone
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.