is this you on your avatar?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Found out ex is pregnant, now she blocked me
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desdinova
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That's Roger Moore in his 007 days
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
If it's not yours, you drop this b*tch like a bad habit and never speak with her again.
If it is yours (Get a DOCTOR to CONFIRM everything), then you man up and raise the kid.
If it is yours (Get a DOCTOR to CONFIRM everything), then you man up and raise the kid.
Skyline
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I always find it odd that some women think that they can raise a kid alone.
I would itch for a DNA test to be honest. Child support is no joke and if she does file for that when the kid is 10 years old, I can see the attorneys push for all of those years that you didn't "pay" for.
I would itch for a DNA test to be honest. Child support is no joke and if she does file for that when the kid is 10 years old, I can see the attorneys push for all of those years that you didn't "pay" for.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Von
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Listen to Taiyuu
Turn the page, deal when it comes
How i see it?
You are not the father... she blocked all communications with you.
So in her mind, you aint the father, you are only plan C (Yep C).. she slept with the dad, covered with the ex-ex, and dropped it on you
Expect her to get back to you for money, get the dna
I know you fine,
Turn the page, deal when it comes
How i see it?
You are not the father... she blocked all communications with you.
So in her mind, you aint the father, you are only plan C (Yep C).. she slept with the dad, covered with the ex-ex, and dropped it on you
Expect her to get back to you for money, get the dna
I know you fine,
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Best advice ever.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
In vitro paternity tests are dangerous and only done in cases of serious medical issues. But after the kid is born, it is much easier.
Just so you know all your rights, assuming you are in the US or a similar western country, you have the right to sue her to force her to take the paternity test. Of course, if it is your kid and you get the court involved, you will end up paying court-ordered child support. It's up to you. There are a few strategic advantages by being the first one to file court papers, one of which is choice of venue. If she moves away, then sues you for support, you'll have to go to court wherever it is she moved away to. Cases can be won that way, just by making it too expensive and difficult for the other side to show up.
Another thing about your right to see the kid and your legal duty to pay support, they are two separate things. If you do get stuck with support, don't just assume you get visitation rights, too. You may still have to sue to get those, but if you are paying support, then you should win visitation.
Just so you know all your rights, assuming you are in the US or a similar western country, you have the right to sue her to force her to take the paternity test. Of course, if it is your kid and you get the court involved, you will end up paying court-ordered child support. It's up to you. There are a few strategic advantages by being the first one to file court papers, one of which is choice of venue. If she moves away, then sues you for support, you'll have to go to court wherever it is she moved away to. Cases can be won that way, just by making it too expensive and difficult for the other side to show up.
Another thing about your right to see the kid and your legal duty to pay support, they are two separate things. If you do get stuck with support, don't just assume you get visitation rights, too. You may still have to sue to get those, but if you are paying support, then you should win visitation.