is this you on your avatar?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Found out ex is pregnant, now she blocked me
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Desdinova
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That's Roger Moore in his 007 days
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
If it's not yours, you drop this b*tch like a bad habit and never speak with her again.
If it is yours (Get a DOCTOR to CONFIRM everything), then you man up and raise the kid.
If it is yours (Get a DOCTOR to CONFIRM everything), then you man up and raise the kid.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I always find it odd that some women think that they can raise a kid alone.
I would itch for a DNA test to be honest. Child support is no joke and if she does file for that when the kid is 10 years old, I can see the attorneys push for all of those years that you didn't "pay" for.
I would itch for a DNA test to be honest. Child support is no joke and if she does file for that when the kid is 10 years old, I can see the attorneys push for all of those years that you didn't "pay" for.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Von
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Listen to Taiyuu
Turn the page, deal when it comes
How i see it?
You are not the father... she blocked all communications with you.
So in her mind, you aint the father, you are only plan C (Yep C).. she slept with the dad, covered with the ex-ex, and dropped it on you
Expect her to get back to you for money, get the dna
I know you fine,
Turn the page, deal when it comes
How i see it?
You are not the father... she blocked all communications with you.
So in her mind, you aint the father, you are only plan C (Yep C).. she slept with the dad, covered with the ex-ex, and dropped it on you
Expect her to get back to you for money, get the dna
I know you fine,
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Best advice ever.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
In vitro paternity tests are dangerous and only done in cases of serious medical issues. But after the kid is born, it is much easier.
Just so you know all your rights, assuming you are in the US or a similar western country, you have the right to sue her to force her to take the paternity test. Of course, if it is your kid and you get the court involved, you will end up paying court-ordered child support. It's up to you. There are a few strategic advantages by being the first one to file court papers, one of which is choice of venue. If she moves away, then sues you for support, you'll have to go to court wherever it is she moved away to. Cases can be won that way, just by making it too expensive and difficult for the other side to show up.
Another thing about your right to see the kid and your legal duty to pay support, they are two separate things. If you do get stuck with support, don't just assume you get visitation rights, too. You may still have to sue to get those, but if you are paying support, then you should win visitation.
Just so you know all your rights, assuming you are in the US or a similar western country, you have the right to sue her to force her to take the paternity test. Of course, if it is your kid and you get the court involved, you will end up paying court-ordered child support. It's up to you. There are a few strategic advantages by being the first one to file court papers, one of which is choice of venue. If she moves away, then sues you for support, you'll have to go to court wherever it is she moved away to. Cases can be won that way, just by making it too expensive and difficult for the other side to show up.
Another thing about your right to see the kid and your legal duty to pay support, they are two separate things. If you do get stuck with support, don't just assume you get visitation rights, too. You may still have to sue to get those, but if you are paying support, then you should win visitation.