"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Found out ex is pregnant, now she blocked me

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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btownbuck2012

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If it's not yours, you drop this b*tch like a bad habit and never speak with her again.

If it is yours (Get a DOCTOR to CONFIRM everything), then you man up and raise the kid.
 

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First things first.. He has to find out who the baby daddy is :cool:
 

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I always find it odd that some women think that they can raise a kid alone.

I would itch for a DNA test to be honest. Child support is no joke and if she does file for that when the kid is 10 years old, I can see the attorneys push for all of those years that you didn't "pay" for.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Von

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Listen to Taiyuu

Turn the page, deal when it comes

How i see it?

You are not the father... she blocked all communications with you.

So in her mind, you aint the father, you are only plan C (Yep C).. she slept with the dad, covered with the ex-ex, and dropped it on you

Expect her to get back to you for money, get the dna

I know you fine,
 

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In vitro paternity tests are dangerous and only done in cases of serious medical issues. But after the kid is born, it is much easier.

Just so you know all your rights, assuming you are in the US or a similar western country, you have the right to sue her to force her to take the paternity test. Of course, if it is your kid and you get the court involved, you will end up paying court-ordered child support. It's up to you. There are a few strategic advantages by being the first one to file court papers, one of which is choice of venue. If she moves away, then sues you for support, you'll have to go to court wherever it is she moved away to. Cases can be won that way, just by making it too expensive and difficult for the other side to show up.

Another thing about your right to see the kid and your legal duty to pay support, they are two separate things. If you do get stuck with support, don't just assume you get visitation rights, too. You may still have to sue to get those, but if you are paying support, then you should win visitation.
 
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