“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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found a girl on a dating site that i approached in my afc days..

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Throughout the final weeks of class I thought this chick was giving me "im interested looks" this is one of the few chicks i get boner just by being around. Long story short I made some lame approach the last day of school, I didnt # close or anything, part of it having to do with me getting another boner. That was 2 yrs ago.I remember seeing her like a few months after that, but no approach. Recently I found her profile on yahoo personals. She's still a hottie, and I'm thinking if i should give it a shot. Pay the $15 and send her an email? I hate doing theese things though, talking about yourself like you are "looking for this and that" and I hate the whole cyber dating thing and having to hold some boring email convo. What I'm questioning is what do i write in the first email? should i ask for a #? ask for a date through email?should i mention that i remember from her from hs?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i wouldnt man

same rules as for the Ex

you never go back to the same girl,

if things didnt work out, and she viewed u as a " Lame" or a whatever guy then its the only to change her view is to do something Krazy which i dont even know but i know its not worth it,

she will probably end up ****ing around with you or try to take advantage
 

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heh. thats why i was thinking of just not mentioning that i remember her. I see your point man, but I dont feel like i put enough effort in to say its royally screwed.
 

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yea i screwed up many times in my early year and i sitll see the girls around

i just ignore them.. i know they see me and they KNOW i see them too but i dont say nothing

and it will bug them.. it will confuse them

so just let her talk to u.. if she does just act normal like whats up.. light stuff

but i dont think its worth another try.. she already thinks ur "lame" and if u want her to think better of you.. you have to talk to her and start all over but u dunno if she will allow u to start over

in this situation girls tend to fvuk around with the guys mind.. they will play games and toy with you..they do this for their own exicment

so just drop it.. there ARE ALWAYS more fishes in the pond!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I understand where you coming from. Never spill your guts. NEVER.

I would portray being aloof and to practice on as many women as possible. Then once you mastered the art, you may have the experience to get your oneitis.
 
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