"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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found a girl on a dating site that i approached in my afc days..

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Throughout the final weeks of class I thought this chick was giving me "im interested looks" this is one of the few chicks i get boner just by being around. Long story short I made some lame approach the last day of school, I didnt # close or anything, part of it having to do with me getting another boner. That was 2 yrs ago.I remember seeing her like a few months after that, but no approach. Recently I found her profile on yahoo personals. She's still a hottie, and I'm thinking if i should give it a shot. Pay the $15 and send her an email? I hate doing theese things though, talking about yourself like you are "looking for this and that" and I hate the whole cyber dating thing and having to hold some boring email convo. What I'm questioning is what do i write in the first email? should i ask for a #? ask for a date through email?should i mention that i remember from her from hs?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i wouldnt man

same rules as for the Ex

you never go back to the same girl,

if things didnt work out, and she viewed u as a " Lame" or a whatever guy then its the only to change her view is to do something Krazy which i dont even know but i know its not worth it,

she will probably end up ****ing around with you or try to take advantage
 

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heh. thats why i was thinking of just not mentioning that i remember her. I see your point man, but I dont feel like i put enough effort in to say its royally screwed.
 

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yea i screwed up many times in my early year and i sitll see the girls around

i just ignore them.. i know they see me and they KNOW i see them too but i dont say nothing

and it will bug them.. it will confuse them

so just let her talk to u.. if she does just act normal like whats up.. light stuff

but i dont think its worth another try.. she already thinks ur "lame" and if u want her to think better of you.. you have to talk to her and start all over but u dunno if she will allow u to start over

in this situation girls tend to fvuk around with the guys mind.. they will play games and toy with you..they do this for their own exicment

so just drop it.. there ARE ALWAYS more fishes in the pond!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I understand where you coming from. Never spill your guts. NEVER.

I would portray being aloof and to practice on as many women as possible. Then once you mastered the art, you may have the experience to get your oneitis.
 
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