"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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found a girl on a dating site that i approached in my afc days..

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Throughout the final weeks of class I thought this chick was giving me "im interested looks" this is one of the few chicks i get boner just by being around. Long story short I made some lame approach the last day of school, I didnt # close or anything, part of it having to do with me getting another boner. That was 2 yrs ago.I remember seeing her like a few months after that, but no approach. Recently I found her profile on yahoo personals. She's still a hottie, and I'm thinking if i should give it a shot. Pay the $15 and send her an email? I hate doing theese things though, talking about yourself like you are "looking for this and that" and I hate the whole cyber dating thing and having to hold some boring email convo. What I'm questioning is what do i write in the first email? should i ask for a #? ask for a date through email?should i mention that i remember from her from hs?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i wouldnt man

same rules as for the Ex

you never go back to the same girl,

if things didnt work out, and she viewed u as a " Lame" or a whatever guy then its the only to change her view is to do something Krazy which i dont even know but i know its not worth it,

she will probably end up ****ing around with you or try to take advantage
 

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heh. thats why i was thinking of just not mentioning that i remember her. I see your point man, but I dont feel like i put enough effort in to say its royally screwed.
 

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yea i screwed up many times in my early year and i sitll see the girls around

i just ignore them.. i know they see me and they KNOW i see them too but i dont say nothing

and it will bug them.. it will confuse them

so just let her talk to u.. if she does just act normal like whats up.. light stuff

but i dont think its worth another try.. she already thinks ur "lame" and if u want her to think better of you.. you have to talk to her and start all over but u dunno if she will allow u to start over

in this situation girls tend to fvuk around with the guys mind.. they will play games and toy with you..they do this for their own exicment

so just drop it.. there ARE ALWAYS more fishes in the pond!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I understand where you coming from. Never spill your guts. NEVER.

I would portray being aloof and to practice on as many women as possible. Then once you mastered the art, you may have the experience to get your oneitis.
 
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