"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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found a girl on a dating site that i approached in my afc days..

gimmeyofonenumba

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Throughout the final weeks of class I thought this chick was giving me "im interested looks" this is one of the few chicks i get boner just by being around. Long story short I made some lame approach the last day of school, I didnt # close or anything, part of it having to do with me getting another boner. That was 2 yrs ago.I remember seeing her like a few months after that, but no approach. Recently I found her profile on yahoo personals. She's still a hottie, and I'm thinking if i should give it a shot. Pay the $15 and send her an email? I hate doing theese things though, talking about yourself like you are "looking for this and that" and I hate the whole cyber dating thing and having to hold some boring email convo. What I'm questioning is what do i write in the first email? should i ask for a #? ask for a date through email?should i mention that i remember from her from hs?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i wouldnt man

same rules as for the Ex

you never go back to the same girl,

if things didnt work out, and she viewed u as a " Lame" or a whatever guy then its the only to change her view is to do something Krazy which i dont even know but i know its not worth it,

she will probably end up ****ing around with you or try to take advantage
 

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heh. thats why i was thinking of just not mentioning that i remember her. I see your point man, but I dont feel like i put enough effort in to say its royally screwed.
 

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yea i screwed up many times in my early year and i sitll see the girls around

i just ignore them.. i know they see me and they KNOW i see them too but i dont say nothing

and it will bug them.. it will confuse them

so just let her talk to u.. if she does just act normal like whats up.. light stuff

but i dont think its worth another try.. she already thinks ur "lame" and if u want her to think better of you.. you have to talk to her and start all over but u dunno if she will allow u to start over

in this situation girls tend to fvuk around with the guys mind.. they will play games and toy with you..they do this for their own exicment

so just drop it.. there ARE ALWAYS more fishes in the pond!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I understand where you coming from. Never spill your guts. NEVER.

I would portray being aloof and to practice on as many women as possible. Then once you mastered the art, you may have the experience to get your oneitis.
 
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