aftershock
Master Don Juan
Interesting...I suppose that their loss is our gain.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude, I just checked out your sig. I didn't know people on this board actually had game! You're the man. =pOriginally posted by MindOverMatter
I've read your FRs and they seem to be very simple and straight forward in content. They come off as a normal guy being himself and just talking to girls.
The whole mantra of mASF is "if you've been yourself and haven't been getting laid, then being yourself doesn't work."
SNIP SNIP
Peace out.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whats mysterys lounge likeOriginally posted by Smooth Player 056
Shezzler......As a member of SoSuave, Masf, and Mystery's Lounge....your game is more be confident, be yourself, have the right attitude....their game is more use the exact lines and techniques. Your FR's dont do anything for them.....they want lines and techniques that will help them. They are also very strict in what you post unlike here......
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
pretty much. you'll notice that once you just become social and give off that "sociable vibe" people will also just start talking to you...since last week, i haven't gone through one day without a girl approaching me.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Talk to girls for yourself, not for FRs. Be social, expand your circle of friends, and improve the other areas of your life...and you'll be better off then reading that silly kid sh!t at mASF.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.