aftershock
Master Don Juan
Interesting...I suppose that their loss is our gain.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dude, I just checked out your sig. I didn't know people on this board actually had game! You're the man. =pOriginally posted by MindOverMatter
I've read your FRs and they seem to be very simple and straight forward in content. They come off as a normal guy being himself and just talking to girls.
The whole mantra of mASF is "if you've been yourself and haven't been getting laid, then being yourself doesn't work."
SNIP SNIP
Peace out.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats mysterys lounge likeOriginally posted by Smooth Player 056
Shezzler......As a member of SoSuave, Masf, and Mystery's Lounge....your game is more be confident, be yourself, have the right attitude....their game is more use the exact lines and techniques. Your FR's dont do anything for them.....they want lines and techniques that will help them. They are also very strict in what you post unlike here......
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pretty much. you'll notice that once you just become social and give off that "sociable vibe" people will also just start talking to you...since last week, i haven't gone through one day without a girl approaching me.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Talk to girls for yourself, not for FRs. Be social, expand your circle of friends, and improve the other areas of your life...and you'll be better off then reading that silly kid sh!t at mASF.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.