aftershock
Master Don Juan
Interesting...I suppose that their loss is our gain.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude, I just checked out your sig. I didn't know people on this board actually had game! You're the man. =pOriginally posted by MindOverMatter
I've read your FRs and they seem to be very simple and straight forward in content. They come off as a normal guy being himself and just talking to girls.
The whole mantra of mASF is "if you've been yourself and haven't been getting laid, then being yourself doesn't work."
SNIP SNIP
Peace out.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Whats mysterys lounge likeOriginally posted by Smooth Player 056
Shezzler......As a member of SoSuave, Masf, and Mystery's Lounge....your game is more be confident, be yourself, have the right attitude....their game is more use the exact lines and techniques. Your FR's dont do anything for them.....they want lines and techniques that will help them. They are also very strict in what you post unlike here......
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
pretty much. you'll notice that once you just become social and give off that "sociable vibe" people will also just start talking to you...since last week, i haven't gone through one day without a girl approaching me.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Talk to girls for yourself, not for FRs. Be social, expand your circle of friends, and improve the other areas of your life...and you'll be better off then reading that silly kid sh!t at mASF.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.