"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Forgot to throw out a condom..

dirtysouth

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Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like. After sex forgot to take the condom off, left. Must have dropped somewhere in her room and she flipped out about it.

Said it was disrespectful and a turn off that I didn't take care of it after.

I told her I was sorry, and I usually take care of stuff like that. I know that's amajor mistake. What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LA_Chico

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Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
 

dirtysouth

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Lol - I love it. I think I AFC'd it up. But she just went off and I needed to go to bed.
 

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LA_Chico said:
Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
Perfect...
 

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dirtysouth said:
Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like
That is all I needed to know. Lets face it, this is what this girl is all about and you can't change her. I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

If I were you I would start sarging better quality women so you can finally drop her and not settle for this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dirtysouth

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I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

You should be a betting man, sir. That's what I am in it for. I keep trying to visualize an uglier face or body on her and I'd be out.
 
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