"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Forgot to throw out a condom..

dirtysouth

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Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like. After sex forgot to take the condom off, left. Must have dropped somewhere in her room and she flipped out about it.

Said it was disrespectful and a turn off that I didn't take care of it after.

I told her I was sorry, and I usually take care of stuff like that. I know that's amajor mistake. What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LA_Chico

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Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
 

dirtysouth

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Lol - I love it. I think I AFC'd it up. But she just went off and I needed to go to bed.
 

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LA_Chico said:
Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
Perfect...
 

DJDamage

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dirtysouth said:
Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like
That is all I needed to know. Lets face it, this is what this girl is all about and you can't change her. I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

If I were you I would start sarging better quality women so you can finally drop her and not settle for this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dirtysouth

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I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

You should be a betting man, sir. That's what I am in it for. I keep trying to visualize an uglier face or body on her and I'd be out.
 
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