"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forgot to throw out a condom..

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Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like. After sex forgot to take the condom off, left. Must have dropped somewhere in her room and she flipped out about it.

Said it was disrespectful and a turn off that I didn't take care of it after.

I told her I was sorry, and I usually take care of stuff like that. I know that's amajor mistake. What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LA_Chico

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Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
 

dirtysouth

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Lol - I love it. I think I AFC'd it up. But she just went off and I needed to go to bed.
 

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LA_Chico said:
Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
Perfect...
 

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dirtysouth said:
Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like
That is all I needed to know. Lets face it, this is what this girl is all about and you can't change her. I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

If I were you I would start sarging better quality women so you can finally drop her and not settle for this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dirtysouth

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I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

You should be a betting man, sir. That's what I am in it for. I keep trying to visualize an uglier face or body on her and I'd be out.
 
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