"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Forgot to throw out a condom..

dirtysouth

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Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like. After sex forgot to take the condom off, left. Must have dropped somewhere in her room and she flipped out about it.

Said it was disrespectful and a turn off that I didn't take care of it after.

I told her I was sorry, and I usually take care of stuff like that. I know that's amajor mistake. What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LA_Chico

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Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
 

dirtysouth

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Lol - I love it. I think I AFC'd it up. But she just went off and I needed to go to bed.
 

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LA_Chico said:
Bro, tell her "if it's any compensation, you can leave a tampon in my room"
Perfect...
 

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dirtysouth said:
Dating an HB9, princess type, used to throwing tantrums when something happens she doesn't like
That is all I needed to know. Lets face it, this is what this girl is all about and you can't change her. I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

If I were you I would start sarging better quality women so you can finally drop her and not settle for this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dirtysouth

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I'm willing to bet you are just around to bang her because she is hot and you compromise her bad behaviour so you can get some (if she was a HB7 or less you would just say "fvck it, i don't need this sh1t anymore" and break it off with her)

You should be a betting man, sir. That's what I am in it for. I keep trying to visualize an uglier face or body on her and I'd be out.
 
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