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She sits next to me and doesnt give me any attention. I dont wanna ask her while all guys are in class. Should i really ask in person? I dont think shes interested because she doesnt look at me or anything
Sounds like low interest and your only use is to help her when she needs it with things. She wants you to be an orbiter. Women select orbiters to fill different roles and helping her out with school appears to be your role.

If you want to accept it continue the interactions and if not then don't.
 

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Sounds like low interest and your only use is to help her when she needs it with things. She wants you to be an orbiter. Women select orbiters to fill different roles and helping her out with school appears to be your role.

If you want to accept it continue the interactions and if not then don't.
I wont accept it. I will ask her out later and if she declines she doesnt exist for me anymore.
Do you think i should try it in person? There is the possibility that she didnt understand what i said because she sent a "?"
 

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I wouldn't expect much since you already did and she ignored it but nothing wrong with trying again.
I asked her out a few mins ago. She still doesnt seem very interested and she cant speak my language very well so i asked her in english if she wants to hang put. She asked me " right now "? I said " no not now, ill Text you" and that was it.
Did i **** up or what ?
 

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I asked her out a few mins ago. She still doesnt seem very interested and she cant speak my language very well so i asked her in english if she wants to hang put. She asked me " right now "? I said " no not now, ill Text you" and that was it.
Did i **** up or what ?
You are over analyzing every detail. Just invite her to spend time with you and force her to say yes or no and then see if she follows though if she says yes.

I strongly believe a man should never reject himself and should always force a woman to reject him by taking action. You'd be surprised how often they go with it.
 

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She sits next to me and doesnt give me any attention. I dont wanna ask her while all guys are in class. Should i really ask in person? I dont think shes interested because she doesnt look at me or anything
Next her.
 

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You are over analyzing every detail. Just invite her to spend time with you and force her to say yes or no and then see if she follows though if she says yes.

I strongly believe a man should never reject himself and should always force a woman to reject him by taking action. You'd be surprised how often they go with it.
There is a lockdown in my country. Restaurants etc. are closed and i dont have my own place. She has her own place but it would be weird if i'd invite myself to her place. Any suggestions or just meet her outside.
 

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There is a lockdown in my country. Restaurants etc. are closed and i dont have my own place. She has her own place but it would be weird if i'd invite myself to her place. Any suggestions or just meet her outside.
Go for a walk somewhere. A park or a cool area with a bunch of shops that you can do window shopping type stuff and can lead to fun conversations about things.
 

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I texted her that we can meet wednesday and now she replied that it's better for her on friday because her work ends earlier on this day. Is this acceptable
 

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I texted her that we can meet wednesday and now she replied that it's better for her on friday because her work ends earlier on this day. Is this acceptable
If you feel it's genuine.,why not
 

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She sent me a Text after that and i replied. Then she asked me another thing and i ignored it.
She just ignored it when i asked her out idk if she understood it or not.
This is classic attention whoare behaviour. She plays stupid and ignores you when you ask her out and instead tries to lead the conversation to other topics to waste your time.

The reason she avoids those questions is because she doesn't want to outright reject you, because then you'd stop giving her attention.
 

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This is classic attention whoare behaviour. She plays stupid and ignores you when you ask her out and instead tries to lead the conversation to other topics to waste your time.

The reason she avoids those questions is because she doesn't want to outright reject you, because then you'd stop giving her attention.
@BackInTheGame78

I'm on my way home now the " date " ended. She acted very confident the whole time and these are the things i noticed:
- she walked very fast and she was going in front of me
- when i tried to hug her she declined
- was on her phone a few times but not all the time so i didnt say anything
- she didnt let me lead ( determined the direction where we going etc.
- she asked me a few questions about stuff she needs help for ( because shes a foreigner ) i told her to ask the competent authority
After 1 1/2 hours she said she had to go home.
I thought that this could be my last chance to escalate and while we were going i put my arms around her waist and she told me that she doesnt want that. She was very serious while telling me that. So we are going back were we met and she suddenly changes the direction and says she has to go that way.
I say bye and that's it.

I was overall Funny we had nice conversations. I had to put was less effort in a girl before i kissed her etc so that wasnt the problem.
Ah and i paid for nothing. She paid her coffee.

This girl didnt even look good. Body was nice and she studied something in her homeland. She told me that she wants to be a career woman.
 

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Ah and i paid for nothing. She paid her coffee.
You're wrong. You did pay with your time. This is time that could've been spent elsewhere or with someone else.
As you get older, it becomes even more valuable than pvssy itself.
Be frugal with your time and who you give it to.
 

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@BackInTheGame78

I'm on my way home now the " date " ended. She acted very confident the whole time and these are the things i noticed:
- she walked very fast and she was going in front of me
- when i tried to hug her she declined
- was on her phone a few times but not all the time so i didnt say anything
- she didnt let me lead ( determined the direction where we going etc.
- she asked me a few questions about stuff she needs help for ( because shes a foreigner ) i told her to ask the competent authority
After 1 1/2 hours she said she had to go home.
I thought that this could be my last chance to escalate and while we were going i put my arms around her waist and she told me that she doesnt want that. She was very serious while telling me that. So we are going back were we met and she suddenly changes the direction and says she has to go that way.
I say bye and that's it.

I was overall Funny we had nice conversations. I had to put was less effort in a girl before i kissed her etc so that wasnt the problem.
Ah and i paid for nothing. She paid her coffee.

This girl didnt even look good. Body was nice and she studied something in her homeland. She told me that she wants to be a career woman.
Sounds like a pretty awful date in terms of a real date. But at least you found out early and she didn't string you along for 3 or 4 dates.
 

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@BackInTheGame78

I'm on my way home now the " date " ended. She acted very confident the whole time and these are the things i noticed:
- she walked very fast and she was going in front of me
- when i tried to hug her she declined
- was on her phone a few times but not all the time so i didnt say anything
- she didnt let me lead ( determined the direction where we going etc.
- she asked me a few questions about stuff she needs help for ( because shes a foreigner ) i told her to ask the competent authority
After 1 1/2 hours she said she had to go home.
I thought that this could be my last chance to escalate and while we were going i put my arms around her waist and she told me that she doesnt want that. She was very serious while telling me that. So we are going back were we met and she suddenly changes the direction and says she has to go that way.
I say bye and that's it.

I was overall Funny we had nice conversations. I had to put was less effort in a girl before i kissed her etc so that wasnt the problem.
Ah and i paid for nothing. She paid her coffee.

This girl didnt even look good. Body was nice and she studied something in her homeland. She told me that she wants to be a career woman.
The signs were there already that she was going to waste your time. In the end I think she went out with you in order to try to take advantage of you and get you to do some favours for her. It's good that you declined. It's also good that you made a move which forced her to show her hand and spoilt her ruse.
 

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