"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Clueless2k16

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this was me in my 20's. whaf would you have done if your were in my shoes? imagine being a teen looking like this, or being in your 20's or 30's. i never had a date, a g/f, im a ****in virgin at 40 y/o. all my life was wasted being bullied, rejected, being made fun of. i dont know how i havent commited suicide yet, must be that i still have hope in better days.


http://3.fotos.web.sapo.io/i/N9302c66f/3428839_pKzkA.jpeg

imagine how this ****ed my life 4ever. you dont understand never will

this is me now bald, older and still same ****
http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picollo30/library/?sort=3&page=1

BDD really?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You gotta be fvcking kidding me. You think you look like sh!t because some idiots bullied, rejected and made fun of you. I can understand that, really I can. What I can't understand is why the fvck you accept it.

You look more masculine and good in those pictures than I do on a regular day, you don't see me whining and b!tching about looking ugly.

You've got nothing to validate your claims. Your evidence speaks against what you claim. You're not as physically ugly as you think you are.

Now get the fvck out of here. Nobody is interested in reading about your whining. You have already decided you're fvcked beyond hope, nothing we say apparently makes a difference anyways.

If I were in your shoes I would quit whining and go prove to myself I'm wrong, that I'm not as ugly as some poor losers say. I wouldn't just remain stuck in a loop concluding how fvcked I am, it doesn't improve sh!t. You're not improving sh!t the way you're doing it now, you just keep yourself fvcked.

You've been held down so much by others that you're used to it. They don't need to be present, because you're so used to it you continue to hold yourself down like they did. You're bullying yourself, only you can put an end to that. Fight back for fvcks sake.
 

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I'm watching the movie Red Dragon...

Starting to see some similarities.
 

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this was me in my 20's. whaf would you have done if your were in my shoes? imagine being a teen looking like this, or being in your 20's or 30's. i never had a date, a g/f, im a ****in virgin at 40 y/o. all my life was wasted being bullied, rejected, being made fun of. i dont know how i havent commited suicide yet, must be that i still have hope in better days.


http://3.fotos.web.sapo.io/i/N9302c66f/3428839_pKzkA.jpeg

imagine how this ****ed my life 4ever. you dont understand never will

this is me now bald, older and still same ****
http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picollo30/library/?sort=3&page=1

BDD really?
Same sh*t, different hour.
 

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so you guys are saying that i looked great with those big ****ing dumbo ears, jew hook nose, and droopy the dog eyes? tell that to the girls that treated me as freak
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so you guys are saying that i looked great with those big ****ing dumbo ears, jew hook nose, and droopy the dog eyes? tell that to the girls that treated me as freak
It's not your outsides.

It's inside your head.

How many people need to tell you in how many ways on how many websites?
 

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Total BDD case... I have a associate who looks a bit like you and I think he pulls down more puss than I do. It is all about gaining confidence, learning how to create a good conversation, maintaining their interest, ect.

Dude, trust me... You should go get some help for this. Not for your actual appearance as that is actually fine, but about your delusional perception of it being far worse than reality.
 

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LOL.

Tx for the laugh once again. Now back to my regular scheduled drink.
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
 

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I believe this OP... He is not a troll, he does not have the hallmarks of a troll he is extremely consistent. I truly believe that he is psychologically ill.

Psychological illness is a difficult thing to manage... I understand this. Your perception of yourself is not based on reality but your own delisuon. I suggest you do not do the surgeries as they are not going to help you, they will not treat the underlying cause of your problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
It puts the lotion on! It does this whenever it's told!
 

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I want you to read this... I doubt you are going to fully understand it, I know this because you are so consumed in your delusion that you cannot fully accept the reality... But just read this and see if it describes your thoughts. "The term Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) describes a disabling preoccupation with perceived defects or flaws in appearance. It can affect both men and women, and makes sufferers excessively self-conscious. They tend to check their appearance repeatedly and try to camouflage or alter the defects they see, often undergoing needless cosmetic treatments. Onlookers are frequently perplexed because they can see nothing out of the ordinary, but BDD causes devastating distress and interferes substantially with the ability to function socially."
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
You'll have a whole new list by then and will be moaning.
 

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i have a chin advancement and possibly malar implants for weak undereye/cheeks development to do and will take braces off and teeth restore in 5 months. I had bruxism and my teeth were all worn off because of excessive grinding/clenching during the night. Lets see if smiling after that will make a difference.
Don't forget the FUT, chest and butt implants, cheekbone and jawline enhancement, juvaderm for undereye, Sculptra for temple enhancement, and fat injection into the top lip.

Then maybe, just maybe, you'll be just perfect!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I want you to read this... I doubt you are going to fully understand it, I know this because you are so consumed in your delusion that you cannot fully accept the reality... But just read this and see if it describes your thoughts. "The term Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) describes a disabling preoccupation with perceived defects or flaws in appearance. It can affect both men and women, and makes sufferers excessively self-conscious. They tend to check their appearance repeatedly and try to camouflage or alter the defects they see, often undergoing needless cosmetic treatments. Onlookers are frequently perplexed because they can see nothing out of the ordinary, but BDD causes devastating distress and interferes substantially with the ability to function socially."
He's been told this for MONTHS and is impervious to any outside information.
 

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the surgeries were all free through the NHS. i think the doctors saw trough my pain and helped me. i've only paid for the orthodontic treatment and the braces
 

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the surgeries were all free through the NHS. i think the doctors saw trough my pain and helped me. i've only paid for the orthodontic treatment and the braces
Gotcha. The unnecessary surgeries were free. Makes sense now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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