******** for "I had a great time"

[sapphire]

After a date, the girl tells you she had a great time but does not tell you she wants you to see or call her again or hints that she wants you to see her again; is that basically her blowing you off?

 

[GuitarOnFire7]

Sounds like it. No counteroffer usually means no second date.

 

[MRomeo99]

Don't overthink things. YOU SHOULD KNOW IF SHE HAD A GOOD TIME. The vibe will be there. She doesn't have to offer any plans that's what you're for. Call her in two days, see how the vibe is. Every chick is different, some of them will be all over you, please call me tomo, let's get together. And others will be much more reserved. As others have said, make the ho say no. Don't overanalyze and potentially blow off what was working for you.

MR

 

[sapphire]

Yea, I agree. I have had girls acting reserved and even disinterested only to accept a date and actually show up.

So I think I will give her the benefit of the doubt and call in a couple of days.

 

[flexion_]

Yep - call her in a few days and then you'll know.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by MRomeo99
Don't overthink things. YOU SHOULD KNOW IF SHE HAD A GOOD TIME.

Beat me to it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Why not just ask if she would like to do it again sometime, right then and there? You don't have to be specific, just wondering if she is worth pursuing. No need to wait a few days either, why not ask her since the two of you are talking about it?

 

[diplomatic_lie]

A typical scenario:

1) Guy and girl date

2) They both had fun

3) A week later, guy calls girl

4) Girl is too shy to ask him on another date

5) Guy is too shy to ask her on another date

6) They think they both didn't like each other


Such a shame.

 

[MRomeo99]

ROFL- Nice one Diplomatic Lie. Happens every single day.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Sometimes a girl doesn't want to appear too eager and scare the guy off. I mean, if she'd said "Oh i had a great time let's get together tomorrow!" you'd be freaked.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Guys are usually afraid of rejection or looking desperate so they don't ask.

 

[penkitten]

woman says " i had a great time" = "lets do it again soon"

 

[fatkins]

******** for "I had a great time"=That was the best sex I've ever had, ever.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Maybe she just wanted to have fun and doenst want anything serious about it. I really think its so dumb how people can never be upfront about their feelings. then we wouldn't have prolems like these.