"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After a date, the girl tells you she had a great time but does not tell you she wants you to see or call her again or hints that she wants you to see her again; is that basically her blowing you off?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't overthink things. YOU SHOULD KNOW IF SHE HAD A GOOD TIME. The vibe will be there. She doesn't have to offer any plans that's what you're for. Call her in two days, see how the vibe is. Every chick is different, some of them will be all over you, please call me tomo, let's get together. And others will be much more reserved. As others have said, make the ho say no. Don't overanalyze and potentially blow off what was working for you.

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Yea, I agree. I have had girls acting reserved and even disinterested only to accept a date and actually show up.

So I think I will give her the benefit of the doubt and call in a couple of days.
 
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Yep - call her in a few days and then you'll know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why not just ask if she would like to do it again sometime, right then and there? You don't have to be specific, just wondering if she is worth pursuing. No need to wait a few days either, why not ask her since the two of you are talking about it?
 
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A typical scenario:

1) Guy and girl date

2) They both had fun

3) A week later, guy calls girl

4) Girl is too shy to ask him on another date

5) Guy is too shy to ask her on another date

6) They think they both didn't like each other


Such a shame.
 
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Sometimes a girl doesn't want to appear too eager and scare the guy off. I mean, if she'd said "Oh i had a great time let's get together tomorrow!" you'd be freaked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Guys are usually afraid of rejection or looking desperate so they don't ask. :rolleyes:
 
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woman says " i had a great time" = "lets do it again soon"
 
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******** for "I had a great time"=That was the best sex I've ever had, ever.
 
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