"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After a date, the girl tells you she had a great time but does not tell you she wants you to see or call her again or hints that she wants you to see her again; is that basically her blowing you off?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Don't overthink things. YOU SHOULD KNOW IF SHE HAD A GOOD TIME. The vibe will be there. She doesn't have to offer any plans that's what you're for. Call her in two days, see how the vibe is. Every chick is different, some of them will be all over you, please call me tomo, let's get together. And others will be much more reserved. As others have said, make the ho say no. Don't overanalyze and potentially blow off what was working for you.

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Yea, I agree. I have had girls acting reserved and even disinterested only to accept a date and actually show up.

So I think I will give her the benefit of the doubt and call in a couple of days.
 
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Yep - call her in a few days and then you'll know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why not just ask if she would like to do it again sometime, right then and there? You don't have to be specific, just wondering if she is worth pursuing. No need to wait a few days either, why not ask her since the two of you are talking about it?
 
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A typical scenario:

1) Guy and girl date

2) They both had fun

3) A week later, guy calls girl

4) Girl is too shy to ask him on another date

5) Guy is too shy to ask her on another date

6) They think they both didn't like each other


Such a shame.
 
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Sometimes a girl doesn't want to appear too eager and scare the guy off. I mean, if she'd said "Oh i had a great time let's get together tomorrow!" you'd be freaked.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Guys are usually afraid of rejection or looking desperate so they don't ask. :rolleyes:
 
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woman says " i had a great time" = "lets do it again soon"
 
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******** for "I had a great time"=That was the best sex I've ever had, ever.
 
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