You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't patronise me, i'm not your son. I don't know you, and you're just trying to make a name for yourself by getting involved. I couldn't care less about your opinions. And i do tell people to stop smoking, if they're in my face.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You'll be missed.
buh byee now....
Now that he's gone... wanna make out?
afraid of P. A. ??
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nah... but you know, it really upset little jonny. Now that he's gone though...
I'm not afraid of Virginia... but Virginia can lick my nuts.
i was talking about public affection.. aka "p.a."Originally posted by Eternal
Nah, he's afraid of Virginia...
Oh wait, were you talking about the state?
no! thats my job..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have no problem with you, just your state's traffic laws.Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
Gio, whenever someone insults the state I live I never know how to react. On the one hand I hate the politics and the heavy religion of VA, but on the other hand I love the ruralness (I could have sex in my front yard and no one would see me, assuming my parents are gone of course) the weather, and the great colleges. So my response to that insult to my commonwealth is... have fun with Penkitten.
::wishes he could've thought of a funnier reply::
Yeah I know it was a joke.
Well, you know, we do other stuff too...Originally posted by Jimbo2k
You guys enjoy this internet-flirting?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i am not knocked up , thank you very much.Originally posted by Don Ronny
All right Gio! You scored yourself another knocked-up wh0re...congrats!
haha eternal didnt want us to derail any more threads, so he made one just for us.
Heh, yeah. We want Demon back!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.