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Yeah I have to disagree. If a woman can sleep with some old fat dude for money, or to get what she wants her boyfriend to do, or for a new purse, or for validation from some dude she’s not into because she’s bored and needs an ego boost, or to get revenge on an ex that dumped her by sleeping with his best friend, then she is quite capable of compartmentalizing sex.

In fact, I would say that women have perfected the act of compartmentalizing sex since the dawn of time.
Really? That's your reasoning? Yep, all those feminine wiles, enough to take over the world, but we have the metoo movement. Yep, if they had all that control and power, they wouldn't need to sleep with a bunch of guys to get movie roles. Women have a tough time compartmentalizing sex, I'm not saying they can't and with a lot of training on the c*ck carousel, they probably can be quite good at it. But from a default, men don't have the same emotional connection to sex that women do.

Roles can be reversed but women are biologically hard wired to have sex be a more connective act than a man. A man is biologically programmed to sow his seed as much as possible, so no, sex is not as an emotional and connective an act as it is for a woman. What we have now is a perversion of society by your tree hugging, hippy doofuses, you know like that @Spaz doofus, who for some reason, wish to reverse the roles between men and women.
 

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Really? That's your reasoning? Yep, all those feminine wiles, enough to take over the world, but we have the metoo movement. Yep, if they had all that control and power, they wouldn't need to sleep with a bunch of guys to get movie roles. Women have a tough time compartmentalizing sex, I'm not saying they can't and with a lot of training on the c*ck carousel, they probably can be quite good at it. But from a default, men don't have the same emotional connection to sex that women do.

Roles can be reversed but women are biologically hard wired to have sex be a more connective act than a man. A man is biologically programmed to sow his seed as much as possible, so no, sex is not as an emotional and connective an act as it is for a woman. What we have now is a perversion of society by your tree hugging, hippy doofuses, you know like that @Spaz doofus, who for some reason, wish to reverse the roles between men and women.
It's funny because I always thought Spaz was at least a little bit phony and or disingenuous. Seems like some of you guys are trying fed up with him too.
 

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Yeah I have to disagree. If a woman can sleep with some old fat dude for money, or to get what she wants her boyfriend to do, or for a new purse, or for validation from some dude she’s not into because she’s bored and needs an ego boost, or to get revenge on an ex that dumped her by sleeping with his best friend, then she is quite capable of compartmentalizing sex.

In fact, I would say that women have perfected the act of compartmentalizing sex since the dawn of time.
Then why does it fvck woman up so much when they have had a lot of partners? What I think you mean is women can rationalize anything because acting on their emotions is more important to them than logical choices. Women all think they're decent people and that everything they do is justified, for the most part, and they just rationalize their behaviors.

The more partners a womans had the more jaded and bitter she is, and the less she'll bond.
 

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Yeah I have to disagree. If a woman can sleep with some old fat dude for money, or to get what she wants her boyfriend to do, or for a new purse, or for validation from some dude she’s not into because she’s bored and needs an ego boost, or to get revenge on an ex that dumped her by sleeping with his best friend, then she is quite capable of compartmentalizing sex.

In fact, I would say that women have perfected the act of compartmentalizing sex since the dawn of time.
I speak for everyone here when I say this. But how many guys have you been with? It would really give us some insight and context on your beliefs.
 

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Lol, admits to being a troll. And pretends like it's wisdom, only a man-bun wearing, hipster moron would admit to that. Good job, showing everyone what a tool you are.
As opposed to someone who gets puzzywhipped by his own wife daily but gets to rant here as a means to let off his frustrations, what with his inability to lead the wife and his own kids ?

Spaz will happily be the outlet of ur frustrations.

Carry on buddy. I do understand.
 

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As opposed to someone who gets puzzywhipped by his own wife daily but gets to rant here as a means to let off his frustrations, what with his inability to lead the wife and his own kids ?

Spaz will happily be the outlet of ur frustrations.

Carry on buddy. I do understand.
And starts with personal attacks because someone sees through his fake bullsh*t. Come sage and wise one, tell us all how enlightened you are.

You're a joke troll, you bullsh*t opinions are meaningless, shallow, egotistical and flat out stupid. You have the mental depth of a 5 year old and the logic of a woman. Go back to your cabin in the woods uni-bomber and finish your manifesto lol
 

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And starts with personal attacks because someone sees through his fake bullsh*t. Come sage and wise one, tell us all how enlightened you are.

You're a joke troll, you bullsh*t opinions are meaningless, shallow, egotistical and flat out stupid. You have the mental depth of a 5 year old and the logic of a woman. Go back to your cabin in the woods uni-bomber and finish your manifesto lol
R u saying there's no truth to what I said ?

But we all know it so it's pointless.

You rant and rant using ur emotions as a guiding tool, often bringing up issues that's not even there to begin with and even starts to believe it, thus turning it into a reality all of ur own making.

The thing is, u r not stupid, you are actually above average.

The problem is that bitterness has clouded the way you think and that my friend WILL influence how you do things in the real world as can be seen here.

Do you still wish to remain in that seemingly never ending loop ?
 

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R u saying there's no truth to what I said ?

But we all know it so it's pointless.

You rant and rant using ur emotions as a guiding tool, often bringing up issues that's not even there to begin with and even starts to believe it, thus turning it into a reality all of ur own making.

The thing is, u r not stupid, you are actually above average.

The problem is that bitterness has clouded the way you think and that my friend WILL influence how you do things in the real world as can be seen here.

Do you still wish to remain in that seemingly never ending loop ?
I'm saying number one, my personal life is not a playground for you to attack me with. Yes, I've made mistakes and I'm taking steps to remedy that. I've already got solutions on the move. I'm sure you have made mistakes as well. I share what I share to hopefully help some other guys avoid those mistakes and perhaps to get some type of constructive feedback.

The difference between us is that I don't need to pump myself up by attacking others. I'm fine with who I am, mistakes and all. You on the other hand, seem to feel good when you feel like you're directing and analyzing others. It's a bit psycho and overly egotistical on your part.

Any guy on here who needs you to psycho analyze them is weak and should seriously who they are before soliciting analysis from a blowhard like yourself. I know that kind of adulation makes you feel good but only if you are an empty person inside. I assume you are pretty empty.

Take your troll analysis and attacks somewhere that they are useful and welcomed, like the nutbin you come from.
 

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As far as the mods go they are doing a horrible job. As a mod, you should have the eyes and brain to separate the wheat from the chaff. This guy is telling people what to do which is what a true Don Juan will never do and you can never expect to be a boss in life if you listen To others to define who you are. all you fools looking for others to tell you who you are is the reason your glued to this site.
Looks like I need to revert to geek speak.

If you use an approximation to prove that X is impossible or doesn't work, but X clearly happens - it’s not that “game proponents can’t explain X”, it’s that you used the wrong approximation.

Know that the approximation of game can never be fully gained from books even if you're memorised every single book on it.

Now go out and socialise with the world as I've advised you on ur thread about Game.
 

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I'm saying number one, my personal life is not a playground for you to attack me with. Yes, I've made mistakes and I'm taking steps to remedy that. I've already got solutions on the move. I'm sure you have made mistakes as well. I share what I share to hopefully help some other guys avoid those mistakes and perhaps to get some type of constructive feedback.

The difference between us is that I don't need to pump myself up by attacking others. I'm fine with who I am, mistakes and all. You on the other hand, seem to feel good when you feel like you're directing and analyzing others. It's a bit psycho and overly egotistical on your part.

Any guy on here who needs you to psycho analyze them is weak and should seriously who they are before soliciting analysis from a blowhard like yourself. I know that kind of adulation makes you feel good but only if you are an empty person inside. I assume you are pretty empty.

Take your troll analysis and attacks somewhere that they are useful and welcomed, like the nutbin you come from.
What makes you think that I'm attacking you ?

Or is it within ur personality to take every single comment as a personal attack thereby letting emotions to rule your thoughts?

Yes, u r an expressive. A naturally passive man.

All passives as with the intellectuals uses their egoism to fuel their excellence within their quadrants, but whilst it pushes them into excellence it's also their achilles heel.

Because obsession is born from egotism.

You feel under attack because ur ego is hurt but it's a perception fuelled purely by egoism.

The opposite is true for a dominant, his excellence is fuelled by determination.

Which is why for many naturally dominant man, mere words are just words, it's not a problem as they would easily dismiss it.

Learn to control that emotionalism and your thoughts will not be so chaotic.
 

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Why wasted your energy making plans hurting her? She may likes that if it's you still thinking about her even In a bad way(it's a sure way to affirms her that you're being hurted) Better spend it on Your own growth and preserve your sanity, just dump her for good is the best solution, always.
Your plans are made with your needs and desires in mind. Once shes made sleeping with another her habit, shes no longer SPIRITUALLY your wife. Her body and mind belongs to him.
 

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You do realize when the cheating spouse gets with a new affair partner they go through an idealized "honeymoon stage". In their honeymoon everything they do will be perfect. You will not interrupt her or take her attention off her honeymoon. They LONG for the next meeting the next sex. Do you think your spouse remembers they love you when they are having a honeymoon with someone new? Shes going to be overly critical and hating everything about you. Brace yourself and pray... Because youve been the perfect strong CUCKHOLD. I dont believe in supporting someone whose getting over on you. Have self respect. Put yourself and your kids first. Think about the example the wife is showing the kids. Take action.

In this situation is 3 choices

1. Stay and pray. Your self worth will go to zero and her disrespect will grow. Plus when this affair ends she will start another
2. CHEAT on her. A surefire way to ger a cheaters attention and take the power back is to cheat on them back.
3. Divorce or dump her move on.

In the interim period of cheating if you have not left i suggest removing all forms of financial, emotional and physical support. Ignore her.
You are condoning her behavior by cheating on her or staying with her. I would go straight into divorce mode.

It would be much better if you prevented that situation in the first place.
 

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You are condoning her behavior by cheating on her or staying with her. I would go straight into divorce mode.

It would be much better if you prevented that situation in the first place.
Prevented her from opening her legs?
 

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Sadly imo going for lower smv than yours is the best solution.

My ex was bitchy and nagging me all the time, but her cheating or leaving me never crossed my mind, i knew i was way higher smv wise than her. (Was almost similar when we started dating)
 

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Sadly imo going for lower smv than yours is the best solution.

My ex was bitchy and nagging me all the time, but her cheating or leaving me never crossed my mind, i knew i was way higher smv wise than her. (Was almost similar when we started dating)
For OP, I would partially agree with ur assessment but you hv something he doesn't or rather he has something in abundance that you have and needs constant validation to reaffirm it.

It can be overwhelming for many women.
 

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Your plans are made with your needs and desires in mind. Once shes made sleeping with another her habit, shes no longer SPIRITUALLY your wife. Her body and mind belongs to him.
You're worthless to her eyes any effort from you either bad or right will be perceived as a loser lol
 

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It wasn't cheating in revenge but rather consequences. Plus the power dynamic is real. Its an option.
It's a rocky road...

Teaching females consequences and accountability is a hard one.. in their mind there is no logic, remember.

Its incoherent rationalization haster wheel is unpredictable, unbeliveable, down right out of order

She will mind fvck you no matter how you approach this. In her mind she is right, and have zero accountability.

You are damm'd no matter what you do.. so do what makes you feel better, that's what she does.. don't think too much about her, just do it. Don't give her reason to walk away, if you need to keep her around because of the kids

Get a silent revenge, n feel better..

I calmly suggest find one p4p, use her to get into a sw!nger club, and get the fustrations out of your system, ups shyte happens¿ next time you see her you can have a smirky smile, while thinking f u
 

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It's a rocky road...

Teaching females consequences and accountability is a hard one.. in their mind there is no logic, remember.

Its incoherent rationalization haster wheel is unpredictable, unbeliveable, down right out of order

She will mind fvck you no matter how you approach this. In her mind she is right, and have zero accountability.

You are damm'd no matter what you do.. so do what makes you feel better, that's what she does.. don't think too much about her, just do it. Don't give her reason to walk away, if you need to keep her around because of the kids

Get a silent revenge, n feel better..

I calmly suggest find one p4p, use her to get into a sw!nger club, and get the fustrations out of your system, ups shyte happens¿ next time you see her you can have a smirky smile, while thinking f u
Sometimes you have to. Being on the receiving end of it isnt healthy.
 
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