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That's not always the case though. Women can change fast. Life is more nuanced than what you just stated. She doesn't have to loath you. But that is SOMETIMES the case.
Excuses. THIS is not nuanced. You want to blame the woman for her low interest level. Women in a relationship with high interest level don’t allow other men to stick their penis in them. You’re rationalizing my friend.
 

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I've often wondered what causes psychosis in some men and why other men are seemingly immune to it.

Gonna be a good read to peek into the mindset of psychos.

Please continue boys...

As a side note; it's good that you're posting online as opposed to shooting up a store choke full of women whilst foaming at the mouth shouting gibberish about these invaders from hell with all their feminine wiles.
I'm going to assume I can guess your political persuasions. Who would have thought an "intelligent" person like yourself could be a closet socialist. Do you have the man bun to go with it?
 

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I'll second that. Sex is not the same for men as it is for women. Men don't get attached through sex. A guy can have a piece on the side and not totally f*ck up his life. Do some guys f*ck up their lives over a side piece? Sure but all men, men who are disciplined, can have a side piece and not get attached. Women, perhaps some women, can't do that. Side pieces become the main piece eventually. It almost always fails but that is what they do. Men can compartmentalize better than women can. Men can use a side piece as a power play and simply go back to their main relationship. Women can't do that.
Thats all it was. Application of power. It will reduce her importance of her affair. And if she want to carry on both of you fvcking other folks you can let het fade to the rear.
 

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I'm going to assume I can guess your political persuasions. Who would have thought an "intelligent" person like yourself could be a closet socialist. Do you have the man bun to go with it?
I understand that people with psychosis is highly delusional and will imagine up nonsensical gibberish from time to time.
 

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Enjoy and don't speculate. You have no idea what I could have possibly already done. It's amazing what you can rationalize.

Also don't use your buzz word shaming language with me little man.
What makes you think that I'm even talking about you ?
 

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Excuses. THIS is not nuanced. You want to blame the woman for her low interest level. Women in a relationship with high interest level don’t allow other men to stick their penis in them. You’re rationalizing my friend.
Are you implying that a woman always has to have high interest in you during a relationship? Would you agree that peak interest level over years is not sustainable?

Interest level ebbs and flows for all humans. Over time, interest level decreases, it's the natural way of comfortability. You can certainly build it back up but it takes effort. I agree, that is on the man.

However ,to think women in relationships must have high levels of interest at all times is impossible. It's those moments when her interest wanes that she may or may not cheat. Also, do not dismiss the idea of another high value man entering the picture at any time. This is hypergamy we are dealing with here. A man of higher value than you can get her interest high. She may cheat on you even though the previous day her interest in you was sky high.
 

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Men you have to obey the boundaries of the game in which you are playing. Think about it like this: in soccer when someone operates outside the established set of rules within the game, they are shown a red card and dismissed if the offense is great enough. If not, perhaps they receive a warning (yellow). Two yellows and they are dismissed.

Same can be applied to relationships. Establish the boundaries of your relationship early, and when someone within the relationship operates outside of those boundaries, they must be dismissed. Boundaries and rules are so important because they end up making the decision for you. No matter how hot, how great of a woman she is, if she oversteps her bounds she is given a red card and dismissed.

For me cheating is a red card and she should be dismissed immediately, never to be spoken to again.
 

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I understand that people with psychosis is highly delusional and will imagine up nonsensical gibberish from time to time.
That all you got dummy? pretending like you are some sage, full of wisdom, only makes you look stupid and pathetic. honest to God, I'm not sure how you fit that giant head through your door, you've got massive ego son, and un-earned at that.
 

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That all you got dummy? pretending like you are some sage, full of wisdom, only makes you look stupid and pathetic. honest to God, I'm not sure how you fit that giant head through your door, you've got massive ego son, and un-earned at that.
A lure was placed and 2 fishes took bites at it...

Congratulations!
 

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Cheat on her with prostitute in the morning. Have a 'reconciliation sex' with her the same day, tell her she is the women of your life.

In the morning when she will leave for work pack your things or pack her things (depending who owns the apartment), leave the note (if you are leaving) or wait for her when she will get back from work to kick her out and play on Playstation or smthng in the mean time :)
I like that 1st paragraph but instead of prostitute, you should have wrote her best friend forever or her sister.
 
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Why wasted your energy making plans hurting her? She may likes that if it's you still thinking about her even In a bad way(it's a sure way to affirms her that you're being hurted) Better spend it on Your own growth and preserve your sanity, just dump her for good is the best solution, always.
Yeah. Also think about it, if you do something that hurts someone else, and that person does something to hurt you back, doesn’t it justify, in your mind, what you did to them? Wouldn’t it just make you feel less bad or doubtful of your initial actions? Almost glad that you did it lol.

Also, if it becomes a game of one upping the other, what the f**k purpose does that serve? Toxic time waster when you can just walk away.
 
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I'll second that. Sex is not the same for men as it is for women. Men don't get attached through sex. A guy can have a piece on the side and not totally f*ck up his life. Do some guys f*ck up their lives over a side piece? Sure but all men, men who are disciplined, can have a side piece and not get attached. Women, perhaps some women, can't do that. Side pieces become the main piece eventually. It almost always fails but that is what they do. Men can compartmentalize better than women can. Men can use a side piece as a power play and simply go back to their main relationship. Women can't do that.
Yeah I have to disagree. If a woman can sleep with some old fat dude for money, or to get what she wants her boyfriend to do, or for a new purse, or for validation from some dude she’s not into because she’s bored and needs an ego boost, or to get revenge on an ex that dumped her by sleeping with his best friend, then she is quite capable of compartmentalizing sex.

In fact, I would say that women have perfected the act of compartmentalizing sex since the dawn of time.
 

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Are you implying that a woman always has to have high interest in you during a relationship? Would you agree that peak interest level over years is not sustainable?

Interest level ebbs and flows for all humans. Over time, interest level decreases, it's the natural way of comfortability. You can certainly build it back up but it takes effort. I agree, that is on the man.

However ,to think women in relationships must have high levels of interest at all times is impossible. It's those moments when her interest wanes that she may or may not cheat. Also, do not dismiss the idea of another high value man entering the picture at any time. This is hypergamy we are dealing with here. A man of higher value than you can get her interest high. She may cheat on you even though the previous day her interest in you was sky high.
I woman who is a decent human being knows this whether subconsciously or consciously and will have conviction to an extent and control herself and not put herself on compromising situations.

Men are human beings with faults and weaknesses. Unfortunately many men today are complete nice guy wimps and most don't have a fighting chance because they've been fed so much misinformation. They don't know any better.

This doesn't give women the right to just willy nilly take advantage of it and we should have social constructs in place that incentivise good behavior. Most women are low quality and do not deserve what they want in a man. Most don't deserve a relationship romantic or just emotional with men. Unfortunately they have it extremely easy and to make things 100 times worse women have this mentality in the back of their head that they were oppressed in the past (they weren't, at least not for being female) so they can easily justify being emotionally cruel and treating men like complete trash.

Yes men need to man up and stop accepting this behavior, but women are now allowed to vote and own property, so regardless they should be held accountable and be hardcore shamed for being slvts, or cheating, or single mothers, or fat.
 

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I'd pretend to be blissfully ignorant for a little while, but no longer than it would take me to cover my ass and plan an exit that benefits me. Then I'd break up quickly and brutally, take my stuff/throw her out before the day is over and move on. No mercy.

1. Make a plan to prevent getting screwed over.
2. Tell her it's over, tell her she's a cheater.
3. Execute plan, don't discuss, ignore her.
4. GTFO ASAP!
 

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I'd pretend to be blissfully ignorant for a little while, but no longer than it would take me to cover my ass and plan an exit that benefits me. Then I'd break up quickly and brutally, take my stuff/throw her out before the day is over and move on. No mercy.

1. Make a plan to prevent getting screwed over.
2. Tell her it's over, tell her she's a cheater.
3. Execute plan, don't discuss, ignore her.
4. GTFO ASAP!
Fvck yeah. And if you do this just right it will traumatize the sh!t out of her. There is no use acting like your ok with what happened when that's not Joe you really feel. There is a time and a place to be mean and spiteful.
 

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A lure was placed and 2 fishes took bites at it...

Congratulations!
Lol, admits to being a troll. And pretends like it's wisdom, only a man-bun wearing, hipster moron would admit to that. Good job, showing everyone what a tool you are.
 
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