"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Few days ago an ex of mine started following me again on Instagram. We haven’t talked since August. Early September i texted her how she’s doing and she didn’t even replied.

What does she want from me ? Is it a game to make me feel things again? She wants to be back with me? Any similar experiences from you guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NSX-R said:
Few days ago an ex of mine started following me again on Instagram. We haven’t talked since August. Early September i texted her how she’s doing and she didn’t even replied.

What does she want from me ? Is it a game to make me feel things again? She wants to be back with me? Any similar experiences from you guys?
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It means absolutely nothing. Do you ask the same questions when random accounts follows you? Of course not.

I have exes that initially blocked me on everything then unblocked after a few months then followed again a few months after that. I have others that never unfriended/unfollowed or blocked me. And still others that like my posts all the time and post supportive/flattering comments.

If any of these girls want anything from me they can ask, and they know this. I don't spend a single second wondering what they're thinking or why they're following me. It could be literally anything.

All she's done is make it easier for you to flex on her. If your posts are too awesome she may reach out or she may block/unfollow again. Point is, who cares! That's yesterday pusssy!
 
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NSX-R said:
Few days ago an ex of mine started following me again on Instagram. We haven’t talked since August. Early September i texted her how she’s doing and she didn’t even replied.

What does she want from me ? Is it a game to make me feel things again? She wants to be back with me? Any similar experiences from you guys?
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She wants validitation. You gave it to her.
 
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NSX-R said:
That’s what I’m also asking myself. Why do i still care . I even made a post about it . She’s already through considering my actions.
How to counter move?
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Block her and put your energy and time into anything but her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shes just gonna check you fancy her still, give it time......she will give you a nights passion, then ghost you liked you never existed.

This sends the average guys mind, running round like larry out the 3 stooges, and he loses his frame.
 
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stringpuller said:
Your counter move was to ignore her. But you texted.


Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

iron rule #7 and a good one
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I didn’t text her . I just accepted her follow request and followed her back .
 
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I didn’t text her . I just accepted her follow request and followed her back .
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Shouldn't have done this. Ex-Girlfriends like to do this to suck you back into their whirlpool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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