"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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buggym4n

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Hey guys,

I've followed this site quite a long while, and now since i just ended a LTR (it's been 3.5 years... i'm 26 now and quite good-looking I assume (slim + a good portion of muscles, almost 6 foot, quite attractive to women (often to those I'm not interested in:)), it I am back in the field and back with some old problems.

So I decided to ask you guy for advice:

How do you follow up with conversation, since I'm usually to slow and uncreative to get a good "personalized" for the situation, I usually open plainly like "Hi! I'm XXX" or "Who are you, then?"

But my problem is to get the conversation going afterwards...To add this info: i'm not _particulary_ good at talking to strangers...

Secondly, how do I change the conversation from "information and opinion exchange" to "flirty-sexual". One in a while that just works but not often. Man, sometimes I hate being a scientist:)

Any ideas?

Thanks guys!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ALPHAROMEO

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YOU JUST PRESCRIPT 3 TO 4 QUESTIONS ALWAYS THE SAME Qs

DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE?
 

buggym4n

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If you can do it without YELLING, certainly - you know, i got sensitive ears.
 

stayfly

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I still have a lot to learn myself BUT my advice would be;

be curious and get to know them

AND

display your attractive, desirable personality



just be a cool, friendly and curious perspm and keep escalating until you build attraction, have done some basic screening and then get her number and get out of there
 
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