Follow-up Conversation after opening

[buggym4n]

Hey guys,

I've followed this site quite a long while, and now since i just ended a LTR (it's been 3.5 years... i'm 26 now and quite good-looking I assume (slim + a good portion of muscles, almost 6 foot, quite attractive to women (often to those I'm not interested in), it I am back in the field and back with some old problems.

So I decided to ask you guy for advice:

How do you follow up with conversation, since I'm usually to slow and uncreative to get a good "personalized" for the situation, I usually open plainly like "Hi! I'm XXX" or "Who are you, then?"

But my problem is to get the conversation going afterwards...To add this info: i'm not _particulary_ good at talking to strangers...

Secondly, how do I change the conversation from "information and opinion exchange" to "flirty-sexual". One in a while that just works but not often. Man, sometimes I hate being a scientist

Any ideas?

Thanks guys!

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

YOU JUST PRESCRIPT 3 TO 4 QUESTIONS ALWAYS THE SAME Qs

DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE?

 

[buggym4n]

If you can do it without YELLING, certainly - you know, i got sensitive ears.

 

[stayfly]

I still have a lot to learn myself BUT my advice would be;

be curious and get to know them

AND

display your attractive, desirable personality



just be a cool, friendly and curious perspm and keep escalating until you build attraction, have done some basic screening and then get her number and get out of there