"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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buggym4n

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Hey guys,

I've followed this site quite a long while, and now since i just ended a LTR (it's been 3.5 years... i'm 26 now and quite good-looking I assume (slim + a good portion of muscles, almost 6 foot, quite attractive to women (often to those I'm not interested in:)), it I am back in the field and back with some old problems.

So I decided to ask you guy for advice:

How do you follow up with conversation, since I'm usually to slow and uncreative to get a good "personalized" for the situation, I usually open plainly like "Hi! I'm XXX" or "Who are you, then?"

But my problem is to get the conversation going afterwards...To add this info: i'm not _particulary_ good at talking to strangers...

Secondly, how do I change the conversation from "information and opinion exchange" to "flirty-sexual". One in a while that just works but not often. Man, sometimes I hate being a scientist:)

Any ideas?

Thanks guys!
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ALPHAROMEO

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YOU JUST PRESCRIPT 3 TO 4 QUESTIONS ALWAYS THE SAME Qs

DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE?
 

buggym4n

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If you can do it without YELLING, certainly - you know, i got sensitive ears.
 

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I still have a lot to learn myself BUT my advice would be;

be curious and get to know them

AND

display your attractive, desirable personality



just be a cool, friendly and curious perspm and keep escalating until you build attraction, have done some basic screening and then get her number and get out of there
 
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