"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Flu while body building

Italia

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2008
Messages
44
Reaction score
0
Age
34
I DID weigh around 180 but since I got sick from Fri-Sun, I now weigh at 170 flat. I hate it when you work hard and then you get sick and get dropped back a few steps. I went to the gym today(Mon) and I recognized slight fatigue in my workout, even a scary blackout while lifting up dumbells for incline press. My strength did not really change much that I could see, was able to do my normal routine. Though all my friends at school noticed that I became really slim down and not as bulky and thick as before which I hate hearing :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

blinkwatt101

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
268
Reaction score
2
Dude to be honest,if your in good enough shape to run around the block,you should still be in the gym. Just don't go 110%. Churn out some good sets and reps and call it a day.

I've always found that a good workout always clears up my system of colds,flus and such.
 

blinkwatt101

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
268
Reaction score
2
Disregard any weight loss/gained during being sick...just pound down fruits and veggies while you stuck in bed and you'll fix yourself in no time.
 

Colossus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2005
Messages
3,494
Reaction score
543
I would NOT work out with the flu. A nose cold, maybe.

Any effort you expend in the gym is taking away from your body's recovery efforts. Just rest until the worst has passed, drink fluids non-stop, and eat bananas, crackers, and veggies. Stomach flu is the worst because you lose like 10 lbs and it's miserable. But going to the gym when you're on the sh!tter every hour isn't going help anything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Wynston

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2008
Messages
60
Reaction score
0
I wouldnt work out with the flu either man, it's science that even when you are fit your immune system is somewhat depressed after a workout, your immune system needs to working full speed to get yourself better. I wouldn't worry about weight loss its most prob water weight, its certainly gonna come back when you are well again. But just relax for once and let your body sort you out! Watch some 80's movies!!!
 
Top