"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flirting or normal?

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i met this salon chick about a month ago at a young professionals party and we chatted a little bit, sort of flirty, but her main interest was distributing her cards to help out her clientel. Well she was pretty hot so I ditched my barber and went to her the next week. She remembered me my name and proceeded to really flirt while she cut my hair, giving me various compliments, indiscreetly telling me how cute i was, etc. I played it off as something she does to get business and keep customers coming back. oh well, it was a fun flirt anyway.

4 days later she called my cell phone (she said she always got her customers phone numbers) on a saturday and asked "how my haircut was doing". am i crazy to believe that she was flat out making a move or am i mistaken? i couldn't really talk much because my gf was in the car with me, but she let me know that the number she called on was her cell number (caller id).

i'm going to ask her out anyway, since the only reason i went to her was to get in her pants anyhow, and my current relationship is going nowhere. just curious as to if this behavior was flirting or strictly business. i mean, how many of you have had barbers call you checking on your haircut?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You've got to ask her out - but I'd guess she is just wanting to keep you around (so if you like the cut, don't ask!!!!).

she said she always got her customers phone numbers
I didn't like this.

Perhaps she's just trying to provide service plus - and figures you'd keep coming back if she flirted.

Bottom line - you've got to ask.
 

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that's been a month ago too, so she knows i'm not falling all over her and desperate to date her (i've had the other gf). but since me and my gf look to be doomed i figure what the heck....
 

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also, to add to this.....her phone number rotated off my phone. What's a smooth way to ask for it again without blowing it?
 

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Stop by her office

To schedule you another appointment for a haircut.


Ask her questions related to her job.....

Before you leave ask her out, but plan it around your schedule not her's.

Her calling you afterwards was a pretty good indication that she was at least fairly interested in you.



Sayno'
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha got her number again, everything's in line with this girl, i didn't notice how big her tits were last time......

she's just 20, so i guess i shouldn't put too much thought into this one....
 
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