European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Let us keep it ultra short, when a cashier is flirty, how do you go for the number close??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Flirting cashier
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Trailboss
Don Juan
Uuuummmm...same as any other woman? What's the difference?
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
+1 rep for that one, that was the kind of answer I was looking for, and I think you put some very good and strong points in.Espi said:
I will keep you updated
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
I tired with on a girl in wales one.
you just got to go for it.
my mum was there so i left the shop then came back after and asked for it.
you just got to go for it.
my mum was there so i left the shop then came back after and asked for it.
Cashiers are a great gauge for training and honing your game. Pick a cashier you like, check the ring finger, and do alot of small talk with joking and negging. After a few times, if she flirts back, flat out ask her if she wants to be packed up along with the groceries and go home with you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I will be going down to the store today, to return two products, as I am about to leave, I am going to ask her for a pen and paper, write down my digits and give it to her.. I know I am giving 'her' the 'power', but it might be interesting, will write a report in my journal (unless she has the day off of course).
Good job, Beowolf. What's the point of asking for a number when you know where she works? The very fact that you can go back and talk to her is equivalent to making a quick and businesslike first phone call. It accomplishes the same thing.Beowolf said:Cashiers are a great gauge for training and honing your game. Pick a cashier you like, check the ring finger, and do alot of small talk with joking and negging. After a few times, if she flirts back, flat out ask her if she wants to be packed up along with the groceries and go home with you.
The standard line is: "When do you get off work?" If she's clearly DTF, go for the kill.