European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Let us keep it ultra short, when a cashier is flirty, how do you go for the number close??
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
+1 rep for that one, that was the kind of answer I was looking for, and I think you put some very good and strong points in.Espi said:When you're number closing a girl at her workplace, it's best to be direct and short--remember that she has managers watching, and despite what she or anyone else says, she is likely very concerned about looking like a slvut in the eyes of her co-workers.
Since you say that she's "flirty," I would just ask for the number.
But don't ask for the number in the checkout line (where coworkers and customers are listening). Just try to approach her when there's no customers, managers, or co-workers hanging around. ..."Hey you! I can't stay long, but I'd like to talk with you sometime. How can I get ahold of you?" Then pull out your cellphone and wait for her to give the number...don't waste time entering in her name. Just call the number first save her name in your phone later.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Good job, Beowolf. What's the point of asking for a number when you know where she works? The very fact that you can go back and talk to her is equivalent to making a quick and businesslike first phone call. It accomplishes the same thing.Beowolf said:Cashiers are a great gauge for training and honing your game. Pick a cashier you like, check the ring finger, and do alot of small talk with joking and negging. After a few times, if she flirts back, flat out ask her if she wants to be packed up along with the groceries and go home with you.![]()