amnbyrd
Don Juan
Has anyone ever tried this site? So its basically a bunch of girls who just wanna hook up:rockon:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fling.com?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was thinking about making this post. I came across the site last night. I don't have much time lately between starting school and running a business and was wondering if this might be a quick solution to find some new sex without all the strings
amnbyrd
Don Juan
So do you guys think this site is for real? I mean from what I can see they look like normal/average/amatuer pics.
Anyone have experiance with this site??
Anyone have experiance with this site??
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Probably most of them are porn web site solicitations disguised as profiles. 
Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.
Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.you can report spam or fake profiles etc. Im gonna admit something here... a few months back I originally came across the site and found an older woman in my area who I messaged and got her number. We talked a bit and planned to meet up. I showed up did a scan of the place saw her realized her pic was kinda decieving and got the hell out of there. She didn't look that bad just really short and poofy curly hair. I think I was just more nervous/weirded out by it all to go through with it.
The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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AH that sucks that it costs money. I thought it was kinda cool but I am very skeptical about it, especially seeing all the p0rn ads on there. i assume that most "girls" profiles on there are fake.
Production6257
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So you met someone using the basic package?mpimpin said:
FoolsCause
Don Juan
I signed-up for the free membership, and you can't contact other members with the free one. Also, there's a side-panel with an offer to join another dating service displaying tons of local women. But there aren't tons of local women on Fling once you join up (only in the advertisement). There's only a few, and they aren't paying members and/or don't have a pic or ugly.
A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If it is anything like adultfriendfinder, it probably only works in well-populated areas and major cities. I have used aff with success in Tampa, but not in the rural midwest where I am now. I looked on AFF within 20 miles of me, and there's like three women, who are probably the biggest hos in the tri-state area.