"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fling.com?

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Has anyone ever tried this site? So its basically a bunch of girls who just wanna hook up:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was thinking about making this post. I came across the site last night. I don't have much time lately between starting school and running a business and was wondering if this might be a quick solution to find some new sex without all the strings
 

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So do you guys think this site is for real? I mean from what I can see they look like normal/average/amatuer pics.
Anyone have experiance with this site??
 

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Probably most of them are porn web site solicitations disguised as profiles. :rolleyes: Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.
 

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you can report spam or fake profiles etc. Im gonna admit something here... a few months back I originally came across the site and found an older woman in my area who I messaged and got her number. We talked a bit and planned to meet up. I showed up did a scan of the place saw her realized her pic was kinda decieving and got the hell out of there. She didn't look that bad just really short and poofy curly hair. I think I was just more nervous/weirded out by it all to go through with it.

The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AH that sucks that it costs money. I thought it was kinda cool but I am very skeptical about it, especially seeing all the p0rn ads on there. i assume that most "girls" profiles on there are fake.
 

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the basic package is free
 

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i semi talked to someone read my above post. I ended up backing out of the whole thing
 

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I signed-up for the free membership, and you can't contact other members with the free one. Also, there's a side-panel with an offer to join another dating service displaying tons of local women. But there aren't tons of local women on Fling once you join up (only in the advertisement). There's only a few, and they aren't paying members and/or don't have a pic or ugly.

A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If it is anything like adultfriendfinder, it probably only works in well-populated areas and major cities. I have used aff with success in Tampa, but not in the rural midwest where I am now. I looked on AFF within 20 miles of me, and there's like three women, who are probably the biggest hos in the tri-state area.
 
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