amnbyrd
Don Juan
Has anyone ever tried this site? So its basically a bunch of girls who just wanna hook up:rockon:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fling.com?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I was thinking about making this post. I came across the site last night. I don't have much time lately between starting school and running a business and was wondering if this might be a quick solution to find some new sex without all the strings
amnbyrd
Don Juan
So do you guys think this site is for real? I mean from what I can see they look like normal/average/amatuer pics.
Anyone have experiance with this site??
Anyone have experiance with this site??
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Probably most of them are porn web site solicitations disguised as profiles. 
Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.
Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.you can report spam or fake profiles etc. Im gonna admit something here... a few months back I originally came across the site and found an older woman in my area who I messaged and got her number. We talked a bit and planned to meet up. I showed up did a scan of the place saw her realized her pic was kinda decieving and got the hell out of there. She didn't look that bad just really short and poofy curly hair. I think I was just more nervous/weirded out by it all to go through with it.
The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Production6257
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AH that sucks that it costs money. I thought it was kinda cool but I am very skeptical about it, especially seeing all the p0rn ads on there. i assume that most "girls" profiles on there are fake.
Production6257
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So you met someone using the basic package?mpimpin said:
FoolsCause
Don Juan
I signed-up for the free membership, and you can't contact other members with the free one. Also, there's a side-panel with an offer to join another dating service displaying tons of local women. But there aren't tons of local women on Fling once you join up (only in the advertisement). There's only a few, and they aren't paying members and/or don't have a pic or ugly.
A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If it is anything like adultfriendfinder, it probably only works in well-populated areas and major cities. I have used aff with success in Tampa, but not in the rural midwest where I am now. I looked on AFF within 20 miles of me, and there's like three women, who are probably the biggest hos in the tri-state area.