Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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amnbyrd

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Has anyone ever tried this site? So its basically a bunch of girls who just wanna hook up:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was thinking about making this post. I came across the site last night. I don't have much time lately between starting school and running a business and was wondering if this might be a quick solution to find some new sex without all the strings
 

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So do you guys think this site is for real? I mean from what I can see they look like normal/average/amatuer pics.
Anyone have experiance with this site??
 

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Probably most of them are porn web site solicitations disguised as profiles. :rolleyes: Do they have a "no spam" rule? Keep us posted.
 

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you can report spam or fake profiles etc. Im gonna admit something here... a few months back I originally came across the site and found an older woman in my area who I messaged and got her number. We talked a bit and planned to meet up. I showed up did a scan of the place saw her realized her pic was kinda decieving and got the hell out of there. She didn't look that bad just really short and poofy curly hair. I think I was just more nervous/weirded out by it all to go through with it.

The thoughts of disease deter me a bit from hooking up with random people, but I think I might try again found an HB 8 red head on there I might message
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AH that sucks that it costs money. I thought it was kinda cool but I am very skeptical about it, especially seeing all the p0rn ads on there. i assume that most "girls" profiles on there are fake.
 

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the basic package is free
 

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i semi talked to someone read my above post. I ended up backing out of the whole thing
 

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I signed-up for the free membership, and you can't contact other members with the free one. Also, there's a side-panel with an offer to join another dating service displaying tons of local women. But there aren't tons of local women on Fling once you join up (only in the advertisement). There's only a few, and they aren't paying members and/or don't have a pic or ugly.

A famous actress' pic is displayed for someone living in Mexico. If you email a question, they'll reply with a request that you call them up on the phone. If you indicate you don't have a phone, they'll not reply. Probably some of the less attractive women are actual paying members that you can contact if you pay the fee.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If it is anything like adultfriendfinder, it probably only works in well-populated areas and major cities. I have used aff with success in Tampa, but not in the rural midwest where I am now. I looked on AFF within 20 miles of me, and there's like three women, who are probably the biggest hos in the tri-state area.
 
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