Known this girl for a while, she started seeing someone and they broke up recently. We already hung out once and we planned on hanging out again but I feel like her interest level is not very high. Would you say flaking on her would raise her interest level?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Flaking on a girl
- Thread starter Dole
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
exactly...jophil28 said:"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
its gutless
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jophil28 said:"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
jophil i usually agree, but girls these days are all but garbage. Flaking preemptively and beating them at their own game is sometimes the only way to hold and maintain attraction.
We have some mutual friends, and her best friend is seeing a good friend of mine, and last night he asked me if I been hanging out with her cause her best friend told him.
So anyways today while txting i was like "So I hear you told (friend) we were hanging out? and it seems like convo turned sour after that
Either way I get a feeling she gonna flake tomorrow. We suppose to go for lunch at 12 and she is going out tonight. I ended our txt convo with "I hope you have fun tonight and see you tomorrow" and she didn't reply so I feel like a flake is coming tomorrow.
I don't see anything wrong with what I asked, do you?
So anyways today while txting i was like "So I hear you told (friend) we were hanging out? and it seems like convo turned sour after that
Either way I get a feeling she gonna flake tomorrow. We suppose to go for lunch at 12 and she is going out tonight. I ended our txt convo with "I hope you have fun tonight and see you tomorrow" and she didn't reply so I feel like a flake is coming tomorrow.
I don't see anything wrong with what I asked, do you?