Known this girl for a while, she started seeing someone and they broke up recently. We already hung out once and we planned on hanging out again but I feel like her interest level is not very high. Would you say flaking on her would raise her interest level?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Flaking on a girl
- Thread starter Dole
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
exactly...jophil28 said:"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
its gutless
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jophil28 said:"Flaking " is just crap behavior. IT is not a legit technique to amp up a woman's IL.
Flaking is typically a low grade female behavior. Men need to act with more quality/
You need to read some of the lit. on creating value and attraction.
And you also need to accept that many times you will meet women who just do not want to be with you for their OWN reasons.
jophil i usually agree, but girls these days are all but garbage. Flaking preemptively and beating them at their own game is sometimes the only way to hold and maintain attraction.
We have some mutual friends, and her best friend is seeing a good friend of mine, and last night he asked me if I been hanging out with her cause her best friend told him.
So anyways today while txting i was like "So I hear you told (friend) we were hanging out? and it seems like convo turned sour after that
Either way I get a feeling she gonna flake tomorrow. We suppose to go for lunch at 12 and she is going out tonight. I ended our txt convo with "I hope you have fun tonight and see you tomorrow" and she didn't reply so I feel like a flake is coming tomorrow.
I don't see anything wrong with what I asked, do you?
So anyways today while txting i was like "So I hear you told (friend) we were hanging out? and it seems like convo turned sour after that
Either way I get a feeling she gonna flake tomorrow. We suppose to go for lunch at 12 and she is going out tonight. I ended our txt convo with "I hope you have fun tonight and see you tomorrow" and she didn't reply so I feel like a flake is coming tomorrow.
I don't see anything wrong with what I asked, do you?