niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
What's the pros and cons of a guy flaking on a girl or plate?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you're a ****ing douchebag. Just so you know, you're the male version of everything we hate in women. You promise to meet somebody, you meet them...on time. You respect the other person and their timeI personally see no cons.
In my opinon the person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance. I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that tests your willingness to stand by our OWN desire, courage, and conviction. DARE them to reject or censure or ostracize you for doing what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD.
In my experience flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. Exhilerating.
That was awesome! A girl flaked on me so I've been ignoring her... When she asks to Meet up.. guess what I'm flaking too lolIn my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.
I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.
Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.
Good answer but I sense you are a bit butthurt no need to fly the moral flag.. i might have a date soon... Damn I forgot my father mother and grandparents died.you're a ****ing douchebag. Just so you know, you're the male version of everything we hate in women. You promise to meet somebody, you meet them...on time. You respect the other person and their time
When did basic human decency start being uncool? This goes both ways BTW. I would be cool with a chick flaking on me maybe once if her mother and father and grandparents all somehow died at the same time, anything else and I wouldn't want anything to do with her again
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah, but what good does it do for you?In my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.
I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.
Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.
I can see flaking on a girl who has annoyed and inconvenienced you for flaking but I don't see what purpose it would serve to flake just for the exhilarating feeling of flaking on a hot girl, unless that feeling is better than sex with a hot girl.In my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.
I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.
Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.