"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Flaking on a girl or plate?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I personally see no cons.

In my opinon the person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance. I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that tests your willingness to stand by our OWN desire, courage, and conviction. DARE them to reject or censure or ostracize you for doing what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD.

In my experience flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. Exhilerating.
you're a ****ing douchebag. Just so you know, you're the male version of everything we hate in women. You promise to meet somebody, you meet them...on time. You respect the other person and their time


When did basic human decency start being uncool? This goes both ways BTW. I would be cool with a chick flaking on me maybe once if her mother and father and grandparents all somehow died at the same time, anything else and I wouldn't want anything to do with her again
 

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In my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.

I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.

Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.
That was awesome! A girl flaked on me so I've been ignoring her... When she asks to Meet up.. guess what I'm flaking too lol
 

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you're a ****ing douchebag. Just so you know, you're the male version of everything we hate in women. You promise to meet somebody, you meet them...on time. You respect the other person and their time


When did basic human decency start being uncool? This goes both ways BTW. I would be cool with a chick flaking on me maybe once if her mother and father and grandparents all somehow died at the same time, anything else and I wouldn't want anything to do with her again
Good answer but I sense you are a bit butthurt no need to fly the moral flag.. i might have a date soon... Damn I forgot my father mother and grandparents died.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.

I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.

Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.
yeah, but what good does it do for you?

The girl will just go out with the 4th guy she has in her smartphone and forget entirely about you.
 
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In my opinon a person who flakes does so from a position of confidence and abundance.

I strongly encourage every aspiring DJ to flake. This pertains to women, jobs, or anything else that risks your being rejected or censured or ostracized. Do what you WANT rather than what you SHOULD, and don't ever explain or apologize for flaking.

Also, in my experience, flaking on a hot chick feels empowering. It is exhilerating.
I can see flaking on a girl who has annoyed and inconvenienced you for flaking but I don't see what purpose it would serve to flake just for the exhilarating feeling of flaking on a hot girl, unless that feeling is better than sex with a hot girl.
 

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I do agree..flaking simply shows deep seated character flaws and has nothing to do with abundance. If your word means nothing as a man, you are nothing.
 

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I also thought one point in time that these games were critical, now I believe that it is actually much more simple. As long as you have some respect for yourself, a good look, and have a life, (which you will need in order to attract someone attractive anyway) the total package is what sets the deal. One little trick is not gonna make a woman fall in love with you, this is great for pick up artists trying to sell their programs etc.

If a woman took great curiousity in your mind games, it would mean that she is highly unsure of her own opinions and has lower self esteem that you really dont want to deal with anyway.

Hook up, have a good time, agree to meet once a week or so for a period of time until she really wants you, dont be her nr 1 texting buddy, should be safe.

Imo, if you like treating people like crap enjoy the ride but dont complain.
 
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