deadmasterx
Senior Don Juan
I've been talking with this girl for some days and yesterday she came up with the idea of call. As you gentlemen already know, the whole world is quarentined and people can't really meet in person, so I took this opportunity to talk with foreign people to practice languages together in app (Tandem).
When she came up with the idea of a call, I asked her what time would she go to the bed, that's when I would call her. So I came, at the right time, texted her saying I was going to call and got no reply. Waited for 10 minutes and went to do something else, no worries. She came after one hour and told me that "she thought I wouldn't call her", and I take it easy, said that I'm a man of my word, and if I say I'm going to do something, it's because I will. She proposed another call right away, saying that she really wanted to do it. This time I said "tomorrow, 7pm there I'll be calling" (the timezones are different). Deal.
So today there I was, ready at the time and wrote her again. Guess what happened? She came two hours later saying that she didn't think I was going to call, AGAIN. That's when I reminded something a friend of mine said, that is showing that you're a bit angry when a girl flakes you this way, and since it was the second time I thought about giving it a try (I usually take it easy and just don't give the girl attention anymore, and don't come up with dating ideas unless she does). I'll be transcribing here some parts of the talk.
Me: Hey, I'm calling. You here? (7pm)
She: I was, thought you wouldn't come (9pm)
Me: You gotta be kidding me
She: No, I'm actually not, I waited for one hour, maybe we just got confused with our timezones.
Me: Now, we didn't. I literally came and told you I'm calling. You weren't here.
She: I don't always have the app open, yk. You weren't here when I checked it.
Me: We set a time for that. Is it your best excuse?
She: Excuses? Ugh, you don't believe me. Great.
Me: Yeah, I don't. But no worries, I wen't to do something else anyways.
She: Think whatever you want (emoji), I don't have to convince you of anything, I really wanted to talk with you but you're being such a
jerk.
Me: Yeah sure
She: Wish you all the best, really, I got hurt for what you said but I forgive you, and sorry if you think that I don't care or that I didn't pay attention to any of these, hope that one day you can forgive me.
(Then she sent an audio after noticing that I didn't reply saying) "Hey, I just wanted to say that I really checked our messages and you're right. So, yeah, I was wrong, sorry. Hope that you can forgive me".
When she came up with the idea of a call, I asked her what time would she go to the bed, that's when I would call her. So I came, at the right time, texted her saying I was going to call and got no reply. Waited for 10 minutes and went to do something else, no worries. She came after one hour and told me that "she thought I wouldn't call her", and I take it easy, said that I'm a man of my word, and if I say I'm going to do something, it's because I will. She proposed another call right away, saying that she really wanted to do it. This time I said "tomorrow, 7pm there I'll be calling" (the timezones are different). Deal.
So today there I was, ready at the time and wrote her again. Guess what happened? She came two hours later saying that she didn't think I was going to call, AGAIN. That's when I reminded something a friend of mine said, that is showing that you're a bit angry when a girl flakes you this way, and since it was the second time I thought about giving it a try (I usually take it easy and just don't give the girl attention anymore, and don't come up with dating ideas unless she does). I'll be transcribing here some parts of the talk.
Me: Hey, I'm calling. You here? (7pm)
She: I was, thought you wouldn't come (9pm)
Me: You gotta be kidding me
She: No, I'm actually not, I waited for one hour, maybe we just got confused with our timezones.
Me: Now, we didn't. I literally came and told you I'm calling. You weren't here.
She: I don't always have the app open, yk. You weren't here when I checked it.
Me: We set a time for that. Is it your best excuse?
She: Excuses? Ugh, you don't believe me. Great.
Me: Yeah, I don't. But no worries, I wen't to do something else anyways.
She: Think whatever you want (emoji), I don't have to convince you of anything, I really wanted to talk with you but you're being such a
jerk.
Me: Yeah sure
She: Wish you all the best, really, I got hurt for what you said but I forgive you, and sorry if you think that I don't care or that I didn't pay attention to any of these, hope that one day you can forgive me.
(Then she sent an audio after noticing that I didn't reply saying) "Hey, I just wanted to say that I really checked our messages and you're right. So, yeah, I was wrong, sorry. Hope that you can forgive me".
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