"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DeerickMo said:
Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
What is the purpose of flaking out on chicks? When I set up a date, I make it clear that when I make an appointment of any kind, I keep it and I expect her to do the same.

I don't see any positives from flaking, if you want to demonstrate value and convey a sense of scarceness there are plenty of other ways to do it.
 

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Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
 

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DeerickMo said:
Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
You double book dates? Are you an airline or something?
 

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I don't really do that on purpose, sometimes I just planned to meet someone then I cannot. Some people get mad, others don't. I haven't really noticed any specific pattern. I should also tell you that I don't see single women anymore, so that may affect my results.

On one of David D's interview series a guy describes inviting 2 women to the same place at the same time. I think that would be pretty funny.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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