"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DeerickMo

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Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DeerickMo said:
Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
What is the purpose of flaking out on chicks? When I set up a date, I make it clear that when I make an appointment of any kind, I keep it and I expect her to do the same.

I don't see any positives from flaking, if you want to demonstrate value and convey a sense of scarceness there are plenty of other ways to do it.
 

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Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
 

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DeerickMo said:
Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
You double book dates? Are you an airline or something?
 

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I don't really do that on purpose, sometimes I just planned to meet someone then I cannot. Some people get mad, others don't. I haven't really noticed any specific pattern. I should also tell you that I don't see single women anymore, so that may affect my results.

On one of David D's interview series a guy describes inviting 2 women to the same place at the same time. I think that would be pretty funny.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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