"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DeerickMo

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Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DeerickMo said:
Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
What is the purpose of flaking out on chicks? When I set up a date, I make it clear that when I make an appointment of any kind, I keep it and I expect her to do the same.

I don't see any positives from flaking, if you want to demonstrate value and convey a sense of scarceness there are plenty of other ways to do it.
 

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Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
 

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DeerickMo said:
Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
You double book dates? Are you an airline or something?
 

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I don't really do that on purpose, sometimes I just planned to meet someone then I cannot. Some people get mad, others don't. I haven't really noticed any specific pattern. I should also tell you that I don't see single women anymore, so that may affect my results.

On one of David D's interview series a guy describes inviting 2 women to the same place at the same time. I think that would be pretty funny.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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